All I have to say is one pig-headed stubborn Pisces German man mixed with the fiery temper of his Gemini Irish/English lass...... makes for a volatile combo! And I would not miss this roller-coaster ride for anything!
We have good days and bad, but everyone does. Relationships require work, respect, and honesty.
We compliment and complete each other......
And to you who think this can't last; I have known my DH since I was 13. We have been together for 20 years this coming March, and married for 15 of those years.
And the 4 Irish/English/Germans we have running around just make the ride more adventurous!!!
OP; I am sorry for your loss. Nothing can erase that kind of pain but time.... I've been there more times than I ever wanted to be and it is heartbreaking.