So....talk about.....CANCER SUPPORT THREAD !!

[N F C]

There is no easy way to say this, or accept it. There was a misunderstanding about my results last week. I finally, after numerous calls to my GP and the hospital got them today. My GP asked that I come see him this afternoon, I went in and we talked. He spoke to the dermatologist… One of the moles was benign, the other wasn't. It was early stage melanoma. He said that I'm going to have a lot more of these procedures done from now on. I'm not sure how to feel about that. Basically it seems that I had extensive sun damage to my skin and that is now resulting in these, second one I had biopsied in under a year now. I'm going to see the dermatologist next month and find out what she wants to do... I'll probably have more surgery.

I know that was a shock and felt like a real let-down after last week. But, they got it early so that's a good thing.

Hang in there, everyone is here for you.

 

[Mamachic1967]

I can understand how people don't know what to say to someone that has found out news of Cancer. It's simply sad that it happens and it's not fair. My heart breaks to hear your news, I now understand what others are feeling, facing, and dealing with. It is a blessing knowing we have others here all over the world sharing your pain. Be brave Sumi, hang on, we are all here with you.

 

[WVduckchick]

There is no easy way to say this, or accept it. There was a misunderstanding about my results last week. I finally, after numerous calls to my GP and the hospital got them today. My GP asked that I come see him this afternoon, I went in and we talked. He spoke to the dermatologist… One of the moles was benign, the other wasn't. It was early stage melanoma. He said that I'm going to have a lot more of these procedures done from now on. I'm not sure how to feel about that. Basically it seems that I had extensive sun damage to my skin and that is now resulting in these, second one I had biopsied in under a year now. I'm going to see the dermatologist next month and find out what she wants to do... I'll probably have more surgery.

ETA: I got a letter from the hospital this morning. They've arranged an appointment for me to see the dermatologist on 16th November.

 

[DwayneNLiz]

There is no easy way to say this, or accept it. There was a misunderstanding about my results last week. I finally, after numerous calls to my GP and the hospital got them today. My GP asked that I come see him this afternoon, I went in and we talked. He spoke to the dermatologist… One of the moles was benign, the other wasn't. It was early stage melanoma. He said that I'm going to have a lot more of these procedures done from now on. I'm not sure how to feel about that. Basically it seems that I had extensive sun damage to my skin and that is now resulting in these, second one I had biopsied in under a year now. I'm going to see the dermatologist next month and find out what she wants to do... I'll probably have more surgery.

ETA: I got a letter from the hospital this morning. They've arranged an appointment for me to see the dermatologist on 16th November.

so sorry to hear about the misunderstanding

lots of hugs and prayers

 

[NotAFarm]

There is no easy way to say this, or accept it. There was a misunderstanding about my results last week. I finally, after numerous calls to my GP and the hospital got them today. My GP asked that I come see him this afternoon, I went in and we talked. He spoke to the dermatologist… One of the moles was benign, the other wasn't. It was early stage melanoma. He said that I'm going to have a lot more of these procedures done from now on. I'm not sure how to feel about that. Basically it seems that I had extensive sun damage to my skin and that is now resulting in these, second one I had biopsied in under a year now. I'm going to see the dermatologist next month and find out what she wants to do... I'll probably have more surgery.

ETA: I got a letter from the hospital this morning. They've arranged an appointment for me to see the dermatologist on 16th November.

My first reaction is

I just get so angry that a mistake could be made in reporting your results. You, and others, don't need to wait weeks and weeks to receive inaccurate information. To be put through the anguish of a protracted wait, the flood of relief and then a crushing "we made a mistake" is inhumane. This is not acceptable behavior to me. I know the job of health care professionals is a difficult one, but there is no excuse for causing undue mental anguish when dealing with people who have to deal with a cancer diagnosis.

.....and now,

a hug,

a kiss, and

lots of prayers that you will beat this once again.

 

[sumi]

Thank you, Mary

 

[LittleLakePhil]

There is no easy way to say this, or accept it. There was a misunderstanding about my results last week. I finally, after numerous calls to my GP and the hospital got them today. My GP asked that I come see him this afternoon, I went in and we talked. He spoke to the dermatologist… One of the moles was benign, the other wasn't. It was early stage melanoma. He said that I'm going to have a lot more of these procedures done from now on. I'm not sure how to feel about that. Basically it seems that I had extensive sun damage to my skin and that is now resulting in these, second one I had biopsied in under a year now. I'm going to see the dermatologist next month and find out what she wants to do... I'll probably have more surgery. 

ETA: I got a letter from the hospital this morning. They've arranged an appointment for me to see the dermatologist on 16th November. 

Dang it Sumi.... I'd like to use stronger language but you know the rules.
I'm so sorry.... But you are a fighter.... This isn't your first rodeo.
Remember its early stages.... If i could give you a real hug i would but you'll have to except this....
I truly believe this is just a "speed bump".... You'll get this taken care of and move on.
Until then we will be here....
... Take care .. Phil

 

[LittleLakePhil]

Well another day....

 

[sumi]

It is too.. Good morning, Phil

I saw your post yesterday, but I was feeling too upside-down (grumpy) to talk much. It wasn't a good week all in all.

 

[LittleLakePhil]

Didn't mean to be gone so long..... Dang I've been so busy.
I hope that everyone is doing okay.
Your all in my prayers.
Sleep well friends..... Phil