so what do you think this dream means? AVAILABLE FOR HIJACKING :)

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I am here to help hijacking. I say the purple onion from the first page is like the great pumpkin from Charlie brown. So now it OS the great onion that we will all have to wait at night for.

 

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I have that dream too, but I never, ever cut class (I was a goody-two-shoes...).

 

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I'm top minion, the rest of the minions seem to have defected into youngers with buckets... I can't remember, maybe Taz was a minion...

 

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Heres' some dreams from last night and this early am.


In the dream I'm in London. The shops are closed except for some corner kiosk venders. There is another couple in the dream and the vendor. He's selling cloth bags that look like their recycled pants or shirts. I look at one and it's got the face of a dog. I look at it more closely than the others trying to figure out which part of the garment its made from . I'm thinking the couple is looking for souvenirs.

I don't remember waking up from that one, but....

In either another dream or a complete change to this one. There is a car and in the front seat is a big box and for some reason I know it has a bomb in it. I move farther down the street and it explodes. No one is hurt. I'm farther down the road now and there is a golf cart and it has the same size box in the front seat too. There are other people in this place and a woman is walking and I yell there is a bomb, but she just walks past it and I'm yelling to get away. There is another woman near me in this dream though we are not together and she's warning there is a bomb too.

Now in this next part or different dream, I'm in this bed in the street and near some store or building. I'm with other people in this bed and there are bombs on top of us kinda like a blanket. I'm thinking these other people are activists but I don't know why I'm in the bed with them or what or who they are. I'm trying to get out of the bed but the weight is to much for me. I struggle but can't get out. I wake up.

Now this next one, I sorta have an idea for it, I remember thinking yesterday how nice it would be if they came home for Christmas.

In this one I'm in a house or apartment and I turn toward a door way and there is my DD (who lives with hers in TX). She's home and I go through the door way and it's kind of like our house and there is my SIL with Henry , GS in his arms. I take Henry from him and Henry gets all peaceful like and goes to sleep in my arms. I go and sit holding Henry.


I have no idea for the bomb dreams or being in London. SIL from TX is from the UK and they've asked us if they go back to have Henry Christened, if we'd go. I said we might but would know more after we see what happens tax wise. But then I was thinking for the amount it would cost to go to England we could make more trips to AL and TX. We have GK's in AL too.

 

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Stop thinking of yourself as "Mom" to animals and that might help to turn that "fuzzy" thing in to a crying, wailing , diaper wearing thing.

IMO 24 is a good time to start having kids. Are you married? I'm not asking, I am but I can pray for you if your aren't. If you are then I can pray you have a baby.

As for something being wrong with the baby, that's normal mom worries. I will warn you Mom worries and Dad worries never go away.

I wish you a nice healthy baby,

Rancher

 

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Sounds like normal worries for an animal lovers like us.

 

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Clearly you were upset over what had happened and a Moose is just super big deer. Seems to me it held no ill will. It was just an accident and Lord knows those can happen.

I wish you peace of mind,

Rancher

 

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Clearly you were upset over what had happened and a Moose is just super big deer. Seems to me it held no ill will. It was just an accident and Lord knows those can happen.

I wish you peace of mind,

Rancher

I think the moose was forgiving you since it was an accident

 

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I'm confused, what does marriage have to do with having babies? It's not a requirement last I checked. I know it has nothing to do with ability, and certainly does not interfere with the process.



I married when Lillian came along, but I've never seen the benefit of it to honest. It's just a lot more paperwork.





Oh, and a bigger tax deduction. Otherwise, nada.

 

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I'm confused, what does marriage have to do with having babies? It's not a requirement last I checked. I know it has nothing to do with ability, and certainly does not interfere with the process.

I married when Lillian came along, but I've never seen the benefit of it to honest. It's just a lot more paperwork.

Oh, and a bigger tax deduction. Otherwise, nada.

Well I'll bite.
No you don't need to be married to "make" a baby, that's true. Then again you don't need to do the research on how children from single parent homes fair either. In short not as good as those from a two parent homes.

As for the benefits of getting married? You also don't need to do the research on that either. But I've already done that for you. I had to research this for my college business class and what I found out is.

1. You can't draw "His" social security if or when he dies. The kids get it but the woman does not. So if your a stay at home live in unmarried woman it can cost you. When my uncle died, my aunt got nothing but for the kids. She had to go to work. They had eight kids. None of his pension for the kids either. Lost everything. Oh she did get to meet the kids from his first and only marriage though. Guess what? They get a cut of that Soc. Sec. too you know. Don't think she got enough either cuz she didn't.


2. What's more if your unmarried and he/she has a pension and he/she dies , guess what you get? Zip, zilch , nothing. You two split up and your not married you get...........that's right nothing. However if your married and you split you get a share. Oh and I'm sorry..... (sarcasim) the kids don't get any of that pension either.

3. Have a 401K? Not married? Oh I'm sorry (sarcasm again)... he/she can change the beneficiary with the stroke of a pen. Leaving it to the new live in girlfriend/boyfriend.

4. Everything in His/her name and guess what you get if you split? That's right (sarcasm again). Tossed out in the street. Don't believe me? Ask the woman who works at the Kwik Fill gas station I go to. That's where I learned that. She got zip! The house burned after she left and guess who got the insurance money? That's right, nothing. Not a thing. It was a corner lot and he sold it to the school and guess what she got? That's right, nothing, zip, zilch.

5. Here's another true story. They lived together and he was killed in a mining accident. Eveything was in HIS name. They had custody of the two little kids cuz the birth mother was unfit. They had them since they were babies. Guess what she got? That's right nothing. The house and the truck and everything but the cloths on her back. Those cute little kids she had raised and was attached to? They went back to that unfit mother.

6. Gotta friend who's daughter got pregnant out of wedlock. He didn't really care so much about custody but HIS parents wanted to see their grandchild. The whole court and all that ensued. Need I say more?

Sure there are no guarantees in life but the odds are in your favor with that piece of paper. I can't say what it is now , but when I did the research, 50% of couples who lived together before marriage were more likely to get divorced. What do you think it is for those who live together?

Now please understand I'm not condemning anyone for their decision to get married or not, but I'm entitled to my OP and I think it's a foolish decision based on my research for both him and her.

I wish you well,

Rancher