I think even some not so 'liberated' people will say it's ok for a man to cry, but do they mean it? Unless it's a single tear, like the one on the cheek of the feathered Native American in the commercial, I'm not really to sure how it would actually go over in real life! So how did it go over in your experience? Do you think men sometimes are too trained to 'keep it in' and might seem callous to a partner during times of tragedy? Is it better for some people to just hold it in, is that their way of getting through rough times? Should each person have their own way, or is one way healthier than another? What do you think? I don't have a position, just interested in what others think, and what their experiences have been.