Somedays..you just make bad judgement calls..

[aubreynoramarie]

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That sounds like an excuse. I am 23 years old. Booze is always in my face. Everyday.

If you really want to give this thing up, you could do it. It just kind of sounds like you don't want to. Like maybe you've already accepted that you'll screw up an you're already giving yourself a reason for doing so

Hope all is well anyhow

 

[redhen]

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LOL! no no.. you dont have to tell... silly! Telling us means nothing...
But what i was saying is...if you THINK its having a NEGATIVE impact on your family.... then.... well... i think you are smart enough to know what to do.

But if its NOT having a negative impact on your family..then..who cares... keep doing it if you want to...

 

[Momagain1]

ok thanks guys...

no its not illegal, no its not alcohol or anything that impairs me etc...or my family...

I'm sorry..I honestly needed to vent and I guess it was the wrong place n time...

 

[aubreynoramarie]

We could keep making jokes about chocolate if that makes you feel better

 

[key west chick]

Some things can not be given up, no matter how hard we try. They are part of us, part of our lives. The only thing we can do is accept that its there, and deal with it. I have something from my past, very near and dear to me. It will never go away. But, it comes in 2 parts. To accept one, is to accept the other. 1 is in my face 24/7. It keeps the second part in my life also. Its this second part that I must deal with, that sometimes gets the better of me and I also make a bad call. We are all just human, and we make mistakes. I deal the best I can, and go on. Some days are harder than others and sometimes it feels good just to vent about it.

 

[arabianequine]

Spending to much money? Cause I do that without even trying. Gambling? Although that is fun. I love to play Bingo and on line at that oh and the slots but I don't that much.

Ok well I tried.....

 

[debilorrah]

Marshawn you are gonna make me pee my pants laughing. Never the wrong time or place. People are going to assume they know what you are talking about like I did.

 

[Momagain1]

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This is how I feel...I'm not sure what yours is and I'm not asking for that info..
but you hit it on the head...it will never go away; from my past..it IS in my face almost 24/7..

you put it in words better than I did!

 

[FrizzleFreak]

Well...this is how I see it.
Here, you have access to the insight and experience of thousands of everyday people, many of whom are probably struggling with something similar to what you are posting about. You are anonymous. You don't have to see us everyday; yet we still care about your welfare and are willing to help. It's not something anybody would bring up again, unless you said that it was alright. Plus, if you really do believe that we're going to judge you (which we're not!!) which would you rather be judged on-- a problem you are willing to face and solve, or your unwillingness to give us enough information to try and help?

It's ultimately your life, your problems, your choices. All we're offering is a way to smooth that road.

 

[un-named]

Can you think of a similar situation to tell us about so we kinda have a hint of how to give advice, without saying the actual thing you are going through?