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You suggest she have a child at 19? Are you kidding me???? I had a child at 23 and I think I was too young. I'm sorry, but you don't have a kid, so you have no 'credentials' on this one.
First off, age doesn't matter. You 'bounce back' in the morning after baby was up all night out of love and devotion. Age doesn't have a thing to do with it. However, many teen moms resent their child for them loosing their 'fun years'. If you think a teen mom wont be "bombarded with things to do that are far more "fun" than" taking care of baby, you are sadly mistaken. I have a cousin who had her child when she was a teen (now 23) and she is always whining about how it's 'not fair' that she has no time for partying and friends. Also....the baby's daddy decided after 3 years that he was too young to be tied down to a GF and baby and dumped her. So now she has a new BF every other week and none of them stick around because they don't want to be responsible for someone else's kid. Let's face it....teen parents have a higher breakup rate then older parents do.
Wait 6 years till jr is in school to go back to school? So she can sit there and see everyone else having fun while she goes home to a job and baby? Ohhh, there's a good plan! Most college students work full time jobs in addition to full time classes. Do you have any idea how much college cost's these days? How much work do you think she would have to do at a minimum wage job to support school and a baby? Exactly where do you think a baby fits in? Scholarships aren't as readily available 6 years out of high school and there's still babysitting to pay for.
Overlarge generation gap??? Do you honestly think that as individuals this really matters? Seriously? So why didn't you contribute to changing this problem? You were having fun and getting your education. Now you want to advise teens to have babies and live their lives on minimum wage because of a problem you weren't willing to help change. That's lovely.
You need to check some statistics on teen parents before you make statements like this. Very few go back to school. Many subsist on welfare and medical assistance.
I'm sorry to disagree with you. I try not to post an argument like this....but talk about pushing buttons! Your post pushed several of mine.
You suggest she have a child at 19? Are you kidding me???? I had a child at 23 and I think I was too young. I'm sorry, but you don't have a kid, so you have no 'credentials' on this one.
First off, age doesn't matter. You 'bounce back' in the morning after baby was up all night out of love and devotion. Age doesn't have a thing to do with it. However, many teen moms resent their child for them loosing their 'fun years'. If you think a teen mom wont be "bombarded with things to do that are far more "fun" than" taking care of baby, you are sadly mistaken. I have a cousin who had her child when she was a teen (now 23) and she is always whining about how it's 'not fair' that she has no time for partying and friends. Also....the baby's daddy decided after 3 years that he was too young to be tied down to a GF and baby and dumped her. So now she has a new BF every other week and none of them stick around because they don't want to be responsible for someone else's kid. Let's face it....teen parents have a higher breakup rate then older parents do.
Wait 6 years till jr is in school to go back to school? So she can sit there and see everyone else having fun while she goes home to a job and baby? Ohhh, there's a good plan! Most college students work full time jobs in addition to full time classes. Do you have any idea how much college cost's these days? How much work do you think she would have to do at a minimum wage job to support school and a baby? Exactly where do you think a baby fits in? Scholarships aren't as readily available 6 years out of high school and there's still babysitting to pay for.
Overlarge generation gap??? Do you honestly think that as individuals this really matters? Seriously? So why didn't you contribute to changing this problem? You were having fun and getting your education. Now you want to advise teens to have babies and live their lives on minimum wage because of a problem you weren't willing to help change. That's lovely.
You need to check some statistics on teen parents before you make statements like this. Very few go back to school. Many subsist on welfare and medical assistance.
I'm sorry to disagree with you. I try not to post an argument like this....but talk about pushing buttons! Your post pushed several of mine.