OK now O am kinda worried, i may not be able to go the Joeys meet up on the 21!! i could not remember for the life of me all that is happening in the next few weeks, then my MOM called. Cara your grandfather is in town from the 12 on, He is visiting from south africa. My mom sister and myself immigrated here when i was 6 yrs old. My grandpa is now 87 yrs old. He is the one really good male role modle i have had in my life, he means the world to me, soooo he is here for three weeks. I will see about flying up to visit him in reno possibly a different day, that of drive to death valley for a camping trip!! after being near 88 in ramona today DEATH valley does not sound like YEAY to me!!