I am sorry.....
I lost a neighbor and very close friend 4 years ago. Her house burned down and her husband told the cops that she did it because she was mad at him. They took him at his word and were charging her for arson while he took the insurance money, the vehicles, guns, and anything else of value and ran with it. He changed his phone number, left her with NOTHING-not even a car! A week after the fire he had a new girlfriend!
She lived with us for 2 months and tried to commit suicide 3 times-but always at her place. She didn't want me or my children to find her. We grew very close in those two months-she had a horribly abusive childhood that she shared with me and nobody else. I still miss her dearly, but I know in my heart that I did everything I could to help her, but she didn't want to live. Don't blame yourself, whatever you do. It was not your choice.
I lost a neighbor and very close friend 4 years ago. Her house burned down and her husband told the cops that she did it because she was mad at him. They took him at his word and were charging her for arson while he took the insurance money, the vehicles, guns, and anything else of value and ran with it. He changed his phone number, left her with NOTHING-not even a car! A week after the fire he had a new girlfriend!