I have hired a housekeeper! You know, a cleaning lady... not a live-in "keeper" of my house.
I have needed one for my entire life but was too ashamed to "deal" with the fact that I am not a housekeeper. I am a home-owner, but not a "keep one clean" person. Y'all have NO IDEA how ecstatic I am about this!
Point one - my house will be clean. Point two - I will be providing income to someone. Point three - I won't be ashamed to invite co-workers I like to my house (eventually). Point four - If, and this is a very big "if" - I ever decide to... ummm... go out on a date, fer instance... I could perhaps invite my date inside for a cup of coffee. Or even maybe a longer visit. Ya never know. It could happen.
This wonderful woman didn't even run screaming out of the house. Nor did she make me feel at all uncomfortable about needing someone to clean for me. This is SO GOOD.
I am so happy for you. Back when we were both working and had better incomes, I've had someone to clean too. It's totally awesome. Enjoy!