Starfire...I was reading back some and you were talking about your boys and guns....This is what DH suggested...it's what his Dad did when he and his brother were young.
Get a couple of watermelons and go where you can safely shoot. Show them the working of the gun, safety and everything. Then shoot the watermelons. This is a graffic but effective way of showing them what a gun will do. Not telling you how to raise your boys....just a suggestion.
DH walks this property every night with a pistol and rifle to keep us all safe. We live out in the sticks but have been robbed in years past (cops did nothing even though the guys were caught with Dad's stuff. Anyway, that will never happen again and hopefully no predator will get our animals..