Sorry for not answering all the posts I see right now. I am in a bit of a rush. We signed the paperwork on Tuesday about the property. It says that we can. "... live on the property as long as they wish." There is a lot more but basically it states that we are to repair the house to her standards. She will pay for all materials and tools for the projects she needs done. If we want to upgrade anything beyond what she has there we have to pay for the materials. It also says that after we are done repairing the house we will be paying 600 a month in rent. The only thing in there which bothers me slightly is that she and her kids can come on the property to camp, or visit whenever they want. I am going to talk to her to see if they can at least provide me a notice they are coming so I don't schedule something a party and have them show up in the middle of it.
As far as building projects we are going to be putting in a well (we will supervise the people who come to do that), a septic (supervising only), modern electrical, extending the kitchen, rebuilding the bathroom, securing all doors and windows properly, modern plumbing, a pond, electricity to all outbuildings, adding a forge, a smokehouse, and some more stuff I can't remember right now but that we wrote down.
Lots of work but I am pretty sure that we will be happy there for a long time.
congrats!! now u know you are going to have to have a house warming since u can have all the roos u want!!!