The Evolution of Atlas: A Breeding (and Chat) Thread

[oldhenlikesdogs]

That's you and me, who would think of the animal first. But, this is a selfish, self-absorbed, me-me kind of person who wants what she wants and if she doesn't get it, throws a tantrum. She's your age, Lisa, for cripes sake! My son is 41.

Not everyone my age has learned some life lessons unfortunately. Sounds like she actually hasn't learned anything in life. That's too bad. I personally wouldn't want to be with a younger man, especially 10 years younger than me, just not my thing.

I could possibly see trying to take a small dog with but a large one will be a hard thing. Maybe it will be too hard for her and she will give up.

 

[robhuncor]

Sounds like the English guy is actually 20 years younger! I wonder if he knows how old she is? I think the dog is really going to hamper her style in England. It's going to cut down drastically on places she can find to live. Plus, what will she do with him when she's out cavorting with the new guy? If she gives it any thought at all, I'm sure she will give up on taking the dog.

 

[speckledhen]

Sounds like the English guy is actually 20 years younger! I wonder if he knows how old she is? I think the dog is really going to hamper her style in England. It's going to cut down drastically on places she can find to live. Plus, what will she do with him when she's out cavorting with the new guy? If she gives it any thought at all, I'm sure she will give up on taking the dog.

I was wondering if she lied to him about her age. And yeah, England is a little different than the U.S. in a lot of ways. Plus, she can't cavort much if he has custody of his 2 yr old daughter. Not a very good father, bringing some strange woman from another country that he's never met in person to be around his kid.

 

[kitkat5505]

Thanks for the comments on the remodel. It’s so much brighter and the space is much more functional for my big family.

Cynthia- your kitchen looks great, much nicer than the before.

Ready for some soap opera drama? Not my drama, but close enough-it's my older son. Apparently, my DIL has been having a cyber-affair with some 30 yr old guy from England with a 2 yr old daughter and has plans to leave the U.S. around October. Someone at my DIL's work is guiding her step by step. She was already taking $$ from their account and opened her a new one, something I told my son to do the first time he caught her messing around with guys online. I told him to start putting his paycheck in his own account, that she couldn't be trusted. He discovered that she has filed for a divorce at the courthouse, some sort of thing for people who can't afford to pay for a divorce where you give your expenses and income and have to get approved. I never heard of it myself.
Supposedly, she is leaving him the house (quit claim would fix that) but wants to take Ghost, the first dog they got, to England with her, says he's her dog. Sophie, the white Shepherd, is very attached to Ghost and very needy, much like Kes was, so the self-absorbed, two-timing wench is, again, being very selfish. She complained he was married to his job, you know, the one she got him stuck in from the start because she refused to wait any time at all for him to find a real job? I knew she was trouble from that point onward. She is 9 years older than he is, at least in chronological years. Otherwise, she never made it past 13 years old, it seems to me.

Her sister came down on her side unexpectedly, because she's "blood", and it blindsided Michael. So, she is supposedly going to go to England in Oct now to be with her 20-years-younger boyfriend, will sell her Sorento that my son has been paying for for years before she goes. He says he doesn't know how she'll survive. He regulates her meds for her migraines and even buys her monthly female supplies for her. That guy in England is stupid to allow her around his daughter, but he'll find out. Just desserts for him messing with a married woman. Bet she'll come running back begging my son when this all blows up in her face. He'd better not even think of taking her back or he doesn't have the smarts he was born with, I tell you.

And there is a huge bombshell we never knew, that we found out last night. My son's soon to be ex-wife has an older sister and a much, much younger brother, like 18 years younger. He was barely a teenager when they got married. We found out last night that he is not her brother, he is her son! And he doesn't know it. He was born when she was 18, was adopted by her parents as their own child and has never been told. He's in his early 30's and married. I hate people lying to their children. This is going to devastate him when he eventually finds out...and one day, he will. He will also be angry with my son for helping keep the secret. I would be.

Wow! Totally soap opera material there! I’m sorry for all of them that have to deal with her, past and future. What a wench.

 

[speckledhen]

Thanks for the comments on the remodel. It’s so much brighter and the space is much more functional for my big family.

Cynthia- your kitchen looks great, much nicer than the before.



Wow! Totally soap opera material there! I’m sorry for all of them that have to deal with her, past and future. What a wench.

Thanks, I like our new kitchen island better than the old one. That thing was so huge, you could do surgery on it, or revamp a car engine, LOL.

Yes, such a nasty wench she is. Sadly, I saw it before the wedding. I said all along that she'd wait for her chance and vamoose when she got a better offer. I bet that guy in England has no idea that she's 50 years old. And she was never all that attractive, either, not like his girlfriend before her. That young woman had a toddler (out of wedlock "oopsie" with a friend of his who was not ready to be a father), which concerned me, but there were so many worse things...and his current wife was one of those worse things. We both liked the other girlfriend, so pretty and sweet to us, not a fake like the one he ended up with, plus the other one was his own age.

 

[robhuncor]

Maybe the English guy is actually looking for a "nanny" for the 2 year old! That might be a rude awakening for her!

 

[getaclue]

But, the dude in England could be lying about everything too. Good riddance to bad rubbish, though. Is your son getting some legal counsel, and being proactive, or just bending over letting her screw him out of whatever she wants?

 

[speckledhen]

Maybe the English guy is actually looking for a "nanny" for the 2 year old! That might be a rude awakening for her!

HAHA, you bet! I hope so. Her parents are really ticked at her. Her father even told my son "you'll be better off without her, she's been nothing but trouble since she was a teenager". LOL. See, she told a friend of hers who is loyal to my son, even calls him "Dad", that she'd told her parents she was leaving my son and they were fine with it. My son went over there (they live in the same subdivision) to tell them that he was happy to have been part of their family for 19 years. They had zero idea what he was talking about and he told them everything. BUSTED! They had no idea at all, had not heard a peep about her shenanigans.

But, the dude in England could be lying about everything too. Good riddance to bad rubbish, though. Is your son getting some legal counsel, and being proactive, or just bending over letting her screw him out of whatever she wants?

Yes, he sure could be! He could be a 90 year old man with a dog, not a child. That would serve her right. Cheryl, I've talked until I'm blue in the face about him protecting himself by getting ahead of this thing, getting his finances un-entangled with hers after he first found out. I can't make him do things as much as I wish he could. If he gets screwed over, he let it happen. There was plenty of time to get her wagon fixed, so to speak. The best defense is a good offense, always, in situations like this. We've seen it so many times in the military, the wife cleaning out the house while the husband was gone and taking it all. I just want her gone, same as I wanted my father's illegal alien wife gone. I was right about both of them. They both did exactly what I predicted in the end, both of them. My family said I was wrong, but I guess they're eating those words now.

 

[1muttsfan]

Good riddance indeed. Hope your son does not waste much sympathy on her needing someone to manage her meds and such. Let her suffer.

 

[1muttsfan]

Good riddance indeed. Hope your son does not waste much sympathy on her needing someone to manage her meds and such. Let her suffer.