@kitkat5505 I still can't get over your family wanting money from your family of ten! That just bugs the heck out of me.
It's funny how people perceive you, too. RANT ALERT! LOL. There were rumors floating among the family that we paid $250K for this house. Where that came from, I have no clue. We paid $89,900. It was a estate. It appraised for over $100K at the time, now worth much more than that after 15 years plus a complete renovation and extreme property improvement, but still, not worth $250K even now (though, from the places I've seen for sale around me for $200K, maybe it's worth more than I think, lol).
So, what part of we live on military pension alone did they miss? You don't get rich in the Air Force. And the pension is low. Even as a disabled vet, my husband gets NOTHING extra added to it, only a small portion d
educted from it and paid directly from the VA is non-taxable. Big whoop, right? We also put two sons through college. Where is this money we supposedly have? My father-in-law left nothing to his children. My father had no will and his hoochie-mama green-card wife got 1/3 of the value of the house profit after expenses, nothing else other than a small part of his IRA that paid for only part of my steel barn; half of what I got for his house replaced my 20 year old Lumina with the used Nissan Rogue. A chunk of the rest will go to dental work for both of us.
So, again, where is the money they think we have? Out of what we do have, we pay for life insurance, which is higher as DH gets older, dental insurance, car insurance and now we'll be paying not just TriCare medical insurance for me, but Medicare for
him starting in February, plus feed and vet 40 chickens and a cat. And yes, we sort of have to eat, too. And I still manage to have emergency cash (food & supplies, too) and no debt other than the piddly remainder of the mortgage, which I wish I could pay. Thankfully, property taxes are dropping this year so I will start throwing more at the principal of the mortgage. But, I don't have DirecTV/Dish or an iPhone, rarely go out to eat at a sit-down place, though we occasionally cruise through Checkers to get a $2 chicken sandwich or burger on the fly (ooh, so guilty!), we don't go to movies or pay concerts EVER, etc. Yeah, poor, poor us. Such a horrible, boring life, right? But, again, where is all that cash they think we have buried in the backyard somewhere or you, Kara, with 8 kids to support? Or how do they think we can support them like they are our dependents in a SHTF scenario which could be long-term? Maybe that's it, they just don't think, period. SMH.