Well as for life here when I came in 2006, I got a good picture of how the community was since everyone for few miles around is somehow related. Libya is more moderate than you would expect in fact well into the 70s you would think you were in a western society.
The last ruler set them back but there are many who either lived abroad or travel widely that influence a majority of public perception. It varies by family and even within my husbands family I see great diversity. While many of the older generations speak many languages, the past 30 yrs english was banned in all but a few instances. Its resurgence here is amazing but it wasnt just english but native Amazigh was banned as well and its now free to learn.
Libya has a high literacy rate and is number 1 in recitation of holy scripture per capita. While all of my sil were educated only 2 dont have degrees. Most women here educate to bachelor's or Masters degrees. More than 75% work outside the home, drive and play active roles in their communities.
While my fil and mil might be old fashioned its my mil who has the hardest seeing as her education was minimal and is only now learned to read at 70 yrs old. There are very backwards thinking folks here to but I know many women american and uk born who have lived here for over 20 yrs and would not think to return to their homelands.
Im getting to experience life in a place that some days you could turn and expect to see disciples of Jesus walk past yet find all the comforts of modern life a block over. I remember seeing an old neighbor years after they moved from my block. He was divorced and in debt struggling to make ends meet. He told me he wished they had never moved away, they were so busy keeping up with the jones's they lost what was most important, family, faith and love.
Media makes it seem much worse than it is and I was talking to another american lady today about the threat of another war, but my faith in God helps me see that this current situation needs to happen, their identity has been stripped from them, faith was rammed down throats or carved up to suit personal agendas and now that they have seen beyond the walls they want what is out there but not at the cost of faith.
Too many youth here to keep the country repressed again but enough that respect the values of faith to keep it a moderate culture. Right now so many countries are playing the political game of what can we take advantage of while they sort out what they want.
I will continue to liken this country to the book Time Machine. The morlocks are dead and 3 books have been brought...what will they learn? There is some bias about the west here but part of that was propaganda, how the west helps them move forward will do more to shape future generations.