Carol I too hear crap all the time. My husband hates them, hates that I won't leave for more than a day, hates that the first thing I do in the morning is go outside and check on them, and hates me having chicks in the house. My having them has caused several fights. I have made my stand! I am happier with them than I would EVER be without them. I am not willing to give them up. I do not ask that he pay for the food or do any of the chores when he is home. I did agree to only have them in the basement in our new house but I also expect him to built me a new barn. My point is he is gone 85% of the year and he complains I am home by dark every night and am not out all day shopping at the malls. hummm seems to me he should be pretty satisfied. I have heard way too many stories about other guys whose wives are up to less than honorable things while the husband is away at war. Growing up I was always afraid of failure so I did not try too many new things. Well I entered into this chicken world just for fun and to have some pretty interesting pets. Well that quickly turned into showing, which turned into hatching and I am doing great at both. That is a huge accomplishment for me. I did not necessarily set out to take on exhibition poultry it just kind of turned into that so my fear associated with failure was not there. I have made all kinds of new friends, my heart if full, and my confidence is building. What is wrong with that? I will go back to the quote hanging in my room, "If the Princess ain't happy Nobody's happy". I have one in my kitchen that says "Laugh and the world laughs with you. Cry and you get your way!" I will use whatever tactic works as long as the chickens stay. They mean the world to me.
I think I was loud and clear when he told me they could not go to the new house. I said very firmly "then we (meaning the chickens and I) will stay here! I don't have to move!" We did not talk for a solid week but he eventually caved and agreed to build the new barn. I am not selling this place either way so I can always come back home.
Sorry for my own rant but I am tired of fighting over the chickens.
Back to more normal conversations everyone.