Ashdoes - I totally get your DH's desire for land, especially here in CO. When we went shopping for land, our goal was land with a well and at least 35 acres, because in CO if you have a well and less than 35 acres, and they run public water where it is accessible to you, you can be forced to cap off your well and use public water. We settled on a 42 acre parcel on a highway frontage road with ~600 acres of State owned land to our West leased for cattle grazing, almost the entire 42 acres to the North before the next neighbor, and a trailer housing an elderly gentleman on the 18 acres next door to our South, with the frontage road and then highway to the East. Our South neighbor died a few years ago so we have had essentially no neighbors, although it appears the property has recently been purchased as there has been activity there lately, and we are worrying about what will come of that (there is no fence between the properties, so if/when someone moves in, I will introduce myself and politely inform them if they have dogs and they show up on our property they will not be given a chance to kill chickens). We are admittedly somewhat hermit-ish - I like people just fine, just not in my back yard telling me what they think about ... anything, I guess. At work I deal with people all day and do a reasonable job of it; when I come home I want peace. DH, cats, chickens, gardens, trees we are trying to get growing, native wildlife, cooking to varying degrees, not necessarily in that order, are the things I want to experience. When I was younger I wanted to live near people and socialize, but as I've aged I've changed. Aside from work we largely live by nature's rhythm. DH was laid off in January and is probably home for good (not much call for heavy equipment mechanics in their 60s). It's okay. Though some days he gripes about it, he mainly likes being here taking care of the piece of the land we tend to. The rest is just buffer between us and "civilization." It is the buffer part that makes the difference, for us at least. Given the way your DH has had to live in the military, I honestly don't blame him a bit. You have been a wonderful wife to him, and as you begin to see why he wants the same kind of buffer, you will understand and embrace what he seeks.
Also, goats want more than an acre. I once had a herd of mostly cashmeres, to eat the weeds, on another property I had of 35 acres, and they used the whole bit and then some.
Also, goats want more than an acre. I once had a herd of mostly cashmeres, to eat the weeds, on another property I had of 35 acres, and they used the whole bit and then some.