SCG I know we talked a little about this yesterday on FB but I am with Latestarter, I honestly cannot believe someone would be so presumptuous. I never even assumed my relatives would watch my children let alone neighbors. I always asked first. I don't know about not saying anything now but I would definitely say no to her if she ever brought it up again. She is the one who is not being neighborly IMO. Just because you live next to her does not mean you owe her free child care. JUST SAY NO!!!