My BF is also pretty hard of hearing - see the trend?
I DO have hearing loss on both sides, accompanied by tinnitus (nice scream going on right now). My favorite oldest daughter often accused/s me of being deaf, or selective hearing. The truth is, she speaks right in the octave where my hearing is worst, and WHISPERS most of the time, or turns her head away while talking, further compounding my ability to hear her.



Besides, if there's something she wants me to hear, the onus is on her to do what's necessary for me to receive her message.