I agree, Hagar, it should be just the opposite, or not at all.
Back when my boys were little and we lived in an area where there were neighbors close by, one neighbor had a friend come to his house to show off the 10 point buck he had killed. They were gathered around the truck looking at the buck in the bed when my son wandered up to see what they were looking at. I went to retrieve him and noticed he was looking sad and I thought the sight of the deer with a bloody tongue hanging out was too much for him. I guided him back toward the house and he walked away with his head down. I felt bad and said, "That made you sad, didn't it?" He nodded and added, "Santa is gonna need that reindeer." It broke my heart. All three boys hunt, but to date, he is the only one that hasn't killed a deer.