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She's just vacationing. Backpacking, visiting jungles, ruins, eating amazing food, the 'Killing Fields' museum, Khmer temples, playing with elephants, hanging out on the beach (especially the last 2 or 3 weeks when she'll be island hopping in southern Thailand). Once you get there, food, lodging and travel is cheap. Street food as low as $0.65 a meal(take that McDonalds), bus travel is $0.25 US, lodging in the countryside is $4 per night, cities $7. More pricey with AC. Thailand is called a foodies delight, beautiful national parks and friendly people.
Her original plan for the winter was to go to Morocco, Algeria and Western Sahara. She planned on riding camels in the Sahara. I'm not sure why she changed her mind because she seemed so determined. That changed to her plan of spending this winter in the Virgin Islands waiting tables but that deal fell through.
2 years ago, my son's girlfriend spent a semester studying biology in Thailand. My son went to visit her and they went to Cambodia as well Thai sites. Perhaps their experience swayed my daughter to hit that part of Asia. My son also spent a month in China a couple years prior to that. He and his girlfriend are considering their next trip being to India when they're both out of school.
A little over a year ago my daughter spent 2 months backpacking across Europe to France, Italy, Croatia, Hungary, Romania, Slovakia, Czech Republic, Austria, Switzerland, Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands. Kind of a whirlwind tour of Europe. She was amazed at all the Canadians, Aussies and Kiwis - as well as Europeans and Asians she met that were her age and spending a year in Europe. That may be why her trip is longer this time and less ambitious.
It must be nice to have money. I can't afford to cross the street.
I think it's my fault. I created travel junkies when they were kids. Even though we traveled the US a lot (mostly camping and canoeing in MO and AR), from the time they were 4 and 5, we would travel abroad at least once a year. Mostly to Mexico, Central America and the Caribbean but also to Europe. Whenever there was an air fare sale, we took it. Hence all the Mexico trips. We would also travel as cheaply as possible once there. Eating like locals, staying in bed and breakfasts, sometimes living and eating with Indians. We once rented a Mayan hut on the beach with no electricity or running water and a Jaguar was on the thatched roof clawing at it - it was only $25 a night though and the most amazing beach. Most importantly, avoiding all inclusive resorts. Hanging out with a bunch of drunk Americans in an all inclusive isn't my idea of travel. No offense to drunk Americans because I've been one, but that's no way to see the world. I'm most proud that my kids got to see how others really live and immersed them in those cultures - not staying in safe, expensive hotels. I'm also proud of the fact that they've footed the entire bill for their travels - they know I don't have it.
Had I not done so, I'm sure my daughter wouldn't have been brave enough to travel the world alone. When she was 16, she decided to fly alone to meet up with my son and I travelling to Austria for a short ski vacation. We missed our connection in Paris and luckily got on another flight to Zurich where we found her sitting the airport McDonalds speaking German to a couple old men, patiently waiting for our arrival. She's tough. My son speaks Chinese. My daughter speaks German and some Italian. She's trying to bone up on some Thai phrases but I'm sure that will be tough.
Their first trip abroad as children was sailing in the USVI and BVI where we chartered a boat and besides the husband/wife team of captain and cook, my family were the only ones on she sailboat. My daughter had the bug so bad that she's been to Mexico more times than I have and I've been there at least 10 times.
Boy, it was nice having a job and no chickens. Now my travel is carrying thawed water.
 
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Let me apologize to you for the Heritage Phase II thread. The get a bit weird over there and it is worst since Bob Blosl passed in October.

It was great that you posted about your White Leghorn!


Thanks, Arielle...you are sweet. I don't take what was said to heart. Others will have their own opinions, and some can only see their own opinions. I don't rile easily. I loved the thread when Bob and Walt held court. I read the entire thing last week, and my brain is still spinning. That's a whole lot of knowledge to cram into your head all at once. I was a bit nervous about posting pics or asking questions over there simply because I am such a novice, and I didn't get a very war reception on another thread when I was trying to find out what Cricket was. Some of those breeders have bite!

That's why I hang out with the "old folks" more and more often. It doesn't feel so much like jr. high here.

sandi (bummed that the Spurs lost last night)
 
Thanks, Arielle...you are sweet. I don't take what was said to heart. Others will have their own opinions, and some can only see their own opinions. I don't rile easily. I loved the thread when Bob and Walt held court. I read the entire thing last week, and my brain is still spinning. That's a whole lot of knowledge to cram into your head all at once. I was a bit nervous about posting pics or asking questions over there simply because I am such a novice, and I didn't get a very war reception on another thread when I was trying to find out what Cricket was. Some of those breeders have bite!

That's why I hang out with the "old folks" more and more often. It doesn't feel so much like jr. high here.

sandi (bummed that the Spurs lost last night)

Great Attitude! I stay subscribed because there is still good information on there.
Oops...you are sweet, too, ron. Sorry about that. Thought that post was from arielle.
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Hi Arielle!

It is fine being confused with someone like Arielle!
 
She's just vacationing. Backpacking, visiting jungles, temples, ruins, eating amazing food, the 'Killing Fields' museum, playing with elephants, hanging out on the beach (especially the last 2 or 3 weeks when she'll be island hopping in southern Thailand). Once you get there, food, lodging and travel is cheap. Street food as low as $0.65 a meal(take that McDonalds), bus travel is $0.25 US, lodging in the countryside is $4 per night, cities $7. More with AC.
Her original plan for the winter was to go to Morocco, Algeria and Western Sahara. She planned on riding camels in the Sahara. I'm not sure why she changed her mind because she seemed so determined. That changed to her plan of spending this winter in the Virgin Islands waiting tables but that deal fell through.
2 years ago, my son's girlfriend spent a semester studying biology in Thailand. My son went to visit her and they went to Cambodia as well Thai sites. Perhaps their experience swayed her to hit that part of Asia. My son also spent a month in China a couple years prior to that. He and his girlfriend are considering their next trip being to India when they're both out of school.
A little over a year ago my daughter spent 2 months backpacking across Europe to France, Italy, Croatia, Hungary, Romania, Slovakia, Czech Republic, Austria, Switzerland, Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands. She was amazed at all the Canadians, Aussies and Kiwis she met her age that were spending a year in Europe. That may be why her trip is longer this time and less ambitious.
It must be nice to have money. I can't afford to cross the street.
I think it's my fault. I created travel junkies when they were kids. Even though we traveled the US a lot, from the time they were 4 and 5, we would travel abroad at least once a year. Mostly to Mexico, Central America and the Caribbean but also to Europe. Whenever there was an air fare sale, we took it. Hence all the Mexico trips. We would also travel as cheaply as possible once there. Eating like locals, staying in bed and breakfasts, sometimes living and eating with Indians. We once rented a Mayan hut on the beach with no electricity or running water and a Jaguar was on the thatched roof clawing at it - it was only $25 a night though and the most amazing beach. Most importantly, avoiding all inclusive resorts. Hanging out with a bunch of drunk Americans in an all inclusive isn't my idea of travel. No offense to drunk Americans because I've been one, but that's no way to see the world. I'm most proud that my kids got to see how others really live and immersed them in those cultures - not staying in safe, expensive hotels. Had I not done so, I'm sure my daughter wouldn't have been brave enough to travel the world alone. When she was 16, she decided to fly alone to meet up with my son and I travelling to Austria for a short ski vacation. We missed our connection in Paris and luckily got on another flight to Zurich where we found her sitting the airport McDonalds speaking German to a couple old men, patiently waiting for our arrival. She's tough.
Their first trip abroad as children was sailing in the USVI and BVI where we chartered a boat and besides the husband/wife team of captain and cook, my family were the only ones on she sailboat. My daughter had the bug so bad that she's been to Mexico more times than I have and I've been there at least 10 times.
Boy, it was nice having a job and no chickens. Now my travel is carrying thawed water.
My wife still struggles to get her head around this concept. I have a large number of friends from college that spent two years traveling Europe either straight after high school or after college. In New Zealand it is just one of those things that you do. Most of them return home, but there are a number that don't. My friends from high school and college are scattered all over the world. Of the four kids in our family, none of us still live in New Zealand and only one of us is married to a Kiwi. Family gatherings are always fun as they could take place anywhere in the world! The last time that we were all together was for a wedding on the Orkney Islands.

Between your family history and the travels of you daughter, you have a lot of interesting things happening. I love hearing about it all.
 
My wife still struggles to get her head around this concept. I have a large number of friends from college that spent two years traveling Europe either straight after high school or after college. In New Zealand it is just one of those things that you do. Most of them return home, but there are a number that don't. My friends from high school and college are scattered all over the world. Of the four kids in our family, none of us still live in New Zealand and only one of us is married to a Kiwi. Family gatherings are always fun as they could take place anywhere in the world! The last time that we were all together was for a wedding on the Orkney Islands.

Between your family history and the travels of you daughter, you have a lot of interesting things happening. I love hearing about it all.

About 7 years ago I was on a Greyhound bus(imagine that) from KC to St. Louis. I couldn't get a flight and didn't want to drive. I met a kid from Korea. He had come across the Pacific with his bicycle. He rode his bicycle from Vancouver, BC to Ontario. He then rode the bike to Omaha, Nebraska to meet relatives where he gave his bicycle to his cousin. That's how he found himself on my bus. He was going on to NYC where he was meeting up with his girlfriend and a couple buddies. From there, they were heading down the east coast through Florida, around the gulf, into Mexico, through Central America and on ward to Columbia, Peru and Ecuador. He said he would have been away 18 months by that time and out of money. He didn't plan on going home yet but knew his parents wouldn't send more money. He didn't know how he would continue but he wasn't worried about it.
I find that mindset so amazing and commendable, not to mention the feat of riding a bicycle most of the way across Canada and half way back across the US before he chose new travel means.

One of my favorite quotes is by Mark Twain.

~~"Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime."
- Innocents Abroad

I was amazed once when I met some people on Cat Island in the Bahamas. They had not only, never left the Bahamas or even been to another island - they had never been to the southernmost nor northernmost end of an island that is 50 miles long and 4 miles wide at its greatest. They really seemed to be vegetating. I can say the same about some of my friends that have never been out of north St. Louis county. Worse yet - no desire to.
 
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I'm glad everyone enjoyed a brief glimpse into my family history. Thanks for your comments. I figured that's what old folks are supposed to do - tell their tale. There's a lot more where that came from.

Pozees, I really can't say what show it was on. It was a group that does ghost hunts all around this region. Alton, IL is just north of here and is one of the most haunted towns in the country. They had a table set up in the courtyard with monitors for each camera. They also had mobile cameras as they walked around trying to elicit a response.
They gave be a DVD of the night but I haven't even looked at it yet. They had 6 or 7 cameras set up so I'm sure it's pretty long.

A new page starts tomorrow. My daughter is leaving in the morning for 3 months in Thailand, Cambodia, Laos and Vietnam. I'm just a little worried about the protests in Bangkok right now.
My brother's girlfriend teaches at the big state university in BKK. She says its not as bad as last time. Mostly isolated. My wife is also going to be in BKK for a lay over in each direction on her way to Bali. She will spend two nights in the city. I am OK with it.

Unless she has business in the city, she should get up North where its wonderful or down south to the beaches. She is in for an amazing trip!!
 
She's spending a few obligatory days in BKK but then heading north, then into the neighboring countries and heading back south. Eventually she'll be going back into BKK to meet up with my wife who wouldn't wait for me to take her anywhere. They'll be doing some elephant stuff there and then into the south to be beach bums.
 
 
I was amazed once when I met some people on Cat Island in the Bahamas. They had not only, never left the Bahamas or even been to another island - they had never been to the southernmost nor northernmost end of an island that is 50 miles long and 4 miles wide at its greatest. They really seemed to be vegetating.  I can say the same about some of my friends that have never been out of north St. Louis county. Worse yet - no desire to.

I know there are some people who have never left the town I grew up in (well for longer than a vacation) and one of my close friends actually lives in the house she grew up in (I think she inherited it when her dad passed away). Some people stay where they are because it is always good to be a big fish in a small pond, don't you know? ;) I couldn't wait to blast out of New England. I like visiting there but honestly, Arizona became home to me. DH is down there now for a few weeks for a test and he went to visit our family members that still live in Sierra Vista. He said it was like going home. I do understand staying put once you find your roots I guess. I love to wander, but if I could move back there I would do it in a heartbeat!
 
Others will have their own opinions, and some can only see their own opinions. I don't rile easily.

I got chased out of one of the heritage breeds threads a long time ago. I had not been talked to like I was that stupid in a long time. I don't need that.

Must be compensating for something. My birds are better than your birds?

Off to go answer the call of the treadmill. April will be here before I know it.
 

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