IT is a process to eat healthier. We are faced with terrible food every day. I dont allow my kids to eat school lunches... it was pizza twice a week. Juice and milk.
We stopped the juice and milk thing long ago. Water and cheese is seemed a better choice.
This is the little bit I know about the Mediterranean diet. Mediterranean diet is a bit of a fallacy. When the study was done, it happened to co-incide with some month long tradition and the foods were a bit different than normal fare. Having said that, it is FAR FAR better than SAD. They also have better controls on herbicides and pesticides, and eat more grass fed dairy and meats and more fish. More locally grown fresh produce.
Changing our diet is a process, I eat closer to paleo now, but cant quite give up cheese and sour cream. THough cheese consumption is way down; tend to look for European cheeses. Deli meats are a thing of the past; bacon and ham, occasionally, far less than before.
Lots of herbs. And spices. THose I have totally embraced!!
Breads. I stopped baking bread almost 20 years ago. I could polish off a whole load all by myself if smothered in butter! Real butter. lol I learned bread is more addictive than cocaine..... there was a study on it. TOtally explained my addiction.
Sugar. We cut way back--- mostly decreasing the foods that needed sugar. Stopped baking. We had become accustomed to eating a sweet every day. Sooo, I stopped baking for the kids. Oddly, they have not complained. THough they do get a LC dessert now and then, and crap out side the house. lol
Thanks! This is all very helpful. Everything’s still a bit of a work in progress. For example, decided to eat a bit healthier today and cook up some of the vegetables from the garden and some eggs and was gonna skip candy and junk but then I went downstairs and grabbed some candy bars... my dad got this bag of Halloween candy last week. Been eating it a lot, like one day I ate like 15 mini candy bars at once

But I’ve been trying to be better. So I thought I’ll just have one... grabbed 4... I thought well I’ll just eat one or two and save the rest... nope, put them away but shortly after I went over and grabbed them.

And I’ve also been up a few hours yet just finishing cooking and about to eat now. Granted I’m super slow at cooking and have to cook everything separate since I only like one pan but still.
Haven’t really drank much of anything either.
And my sleep schedule is a mess. Last night I tried to go to bed early and did but then I woke up super early and fell back asleep till late... so slept way too much

And really don’t exercise.
I’m a bit of a mess in general

Trying to work on it though
But even now I just burnt my eggs cause I wasn’t paying attention haha still edible but still.
migraine hell

I have one sweet treat a day. I'm maintaining my weight just fine. I do exercise often to maintain my weight and it helps me feel good. Healthy lifestyle is a choice you have to make every day but it doesn't mean you have to deny every indulgence. Just my two cents.