Unfortunately, sooner or later his health is going to take a dump and suddenly things will be made clear to him.No, still feeling lousy and hubby always acts like he doesn't believe i am sick. He really can be a jerk sometimes.
Until then, take care of yourself and take it easy. My husband is very supportive. I am very lucky, because he knows if I hit the sofa and don't move other than to feed the birds and dogs, and make the meals, I'm sick.
If I say, will you feed the birds and gather eggs and oh, by the way, there are Marie Calendar Meat Pies in the freezer for you to make for dinner, and plant myself unmoving on the couch bundled in a blanket with the tv remote clutched in my hand then I am REALLY sick.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is take care of you and admit defeat until whatever is making you miserable passes.