Our Christmas was going well till we got word last night late that a friend of my husbands who was in the hospital for suspected pneumonia from Covid had passed away from metastatic lung cancer on the 13th. His family had received our Christmas card and his daughter had been putting off getting in touch with us. She said it just made it all seem too real for her.
He had a kidney removed two years ago from cancer. His last check up two months ago proclaimed him cancer free, two months later.........We set for the rest of the evening staring at nothing and shaking our heads. We had talked to him last month from his hospital bed. He was feeling better.
Woke up this morning took a deep breath and managed to recover the rest of the holiday. He wouldn't have wanted us to grieve through Christmas.
Sometimes you're the windshield sometimes you're the bug.....
He had a kidney removed two years ago from cancer. His last check up two months ago proclaimed him cancer free, two months later.........We set for the rest of the evening staring at nothing and shaking our heads. We had talked to him last month from his hospital bed. He was feeling better.
Woke up this morning took a deep breath and managed to recover the rest of the holiday. He wouldn't have wanted us to grieve through Christmas.
Sometimes you're the windshield sometimes you're the bug.....


