I realized a long time ago that people don't hate me, they hate something about me that set them off. If they bothered to look past that moment/incident/impression, there would be no "hate." Unfortunately, haters are too lazy or too shallow to make the effort, so the limited vision feeds itself.
It's a "them" problem, M'Dear, not a "you" problem. Write them off and move on.
And although I can and will say this to anyone who will listen, I still "wish I could say" it to everyone who feels the negativity of someone else's shallow heart and mind.
Write them off and move on.