Think our oldest is drinking cough syrup...

[Lucky Ducky]

I think you have gotten enough advice here. I agree that you need to start with talking to her openly and calmly. I do want to applaud you for opening up about this because of it I will have a serious heart to heart with my 8 and 5 year olds. Neither one really like to take medicine but I would rather talk to them now than later. So THANK YOU for the eye opener. I hope you get everything worked out.

 

[Three Cedars Silkies]

Agree that Eggs4sale is speaking truth from experience. If you didn't have an open relationship with your parents, it may be more difficult for you to have one with your daughter. BUT...it's not impossible. We know that you love her with your life...she needs to know that too! Tell her....don't assume she knows.

And agree with beekissed...pray, pray, pray. "The fervent prayers of a righteous mother avails much..."

 

[SarahFair]

Times are changing. When I was in 6th grade I never even knew you could do that. I was pretty oblivious to everything really..till health class in 7th grade.

If you ask her she will probly deny but if you trick her she wont thank you for that either and might learn that its ok to be sneaky.

IDK what to tell you..

Maybe line up some facts about the abuse of CS. Sit her down and have your own little health class. Then once youre finished ask her about it.

 

[froggie71]

I agree that you need to talk to your daughter about what is going on. I also do not think Ipecac is the answer. For several reasons, and 1 I haven't seen yet is that it in itself can turn out to be a problem. If she does have problems with stress, depression or perhaps self-esteem, teaching her the ipecac can make you throw up can become more of a problem. Not that this is an issue or will be one, but Bulimics use Ipecac to aid in their affliction. Just another thought of why that is not the best answer. Good luck.

I have 3 boys myself, 15, 13 and 12. They can be challenging. I'm always trying to talk to them to find out what's going on. My 13 year old is the only 1 with facebook and myspace. If however he didn't have this, I wouldn't have known what was going on with him. He made some odd suicidal type statements that my sister saw (she is friends with him) and alerted me to it. Still not sure what was going on because he doesn't like to share with mom, but mom talked and he listened. I haven't seen any other signs of any problems, but I like them to be aware that I know about things that can happen and am always available to talk to if need be.

 

[Elite Silkies]

I really do not know what I would do. I caught my son smoking and casually let him know that I knew, and it would not be accepted, and that I shall never find another cigarette or lighter in his room. He is no longer allowed to keep his door shut, and this drives him crazy, because he likes his privacy. I haven't caught him smoking anymore, but I can't be around him 100% of the time. A lot of people blame it on me because I am a smoker, so trust me, there will be no bashing from me. It doesn't matter how well you raise your children or with what morals you raise them with, I feel that they are their own people and they will make their own decisions. All you can hope for is that they make the right choices.

I would probably talk to her and then seek counseling for her. You need to find out how bad the addiction is, if that is possible.

I found this information on ipecac: (So, with it having a possible side effect if given to someone that has consumed alcohol, I am not sure that I would try this, without consulting with a Dr. first.)

What is ipecac oral syrup?
IPECAC SYRUP is used as an emergency treatment for certain kinds of poisoning or drug overdose. When the syrup is taken by mouth, it causes vomiting of the poison or drug. However, always check with your poison control center before taking or giving ipecac to another person; not all poisonings should be treated with ipecac syrup. The National Poison Control Hotline (1—800—222—1222) will connect you to the nearest Poison Control Center. Ipecac syrup is currently available without a prescription.

What should I tell my health care provider before I take this medicine?
They need to know if you or the person that will receive ipecac have any of these conditions (get emergency help as soon as you can):
• an inability to vomit
• bleeding in the head, head tumor, intracranial hypertension, or recent head injury
• coma, or possibility of falling into a coma
• confusion
• heart disease
• neuromuscular disease
• poisoning with petroleum products (such as kerosene, gasoline, fuel oil, paint thinner, or cleaning fluids)
• recent heavy alcohol use
• seizures (convulsions)
• severe drowsiness or tiredness
• shock
• strong acid or alkali poisoning (such as caustic soda, lye, drain cleaners, oven cleaners, or automatic dishwasher detergent)
• strychnine poisoning
• stroke or transient ischemic attack (TIA)
• an unusual reaction to ipecac, other medicines, foods, dyes, or preservatives
• pregnant
• breast-feeding

How should I take this medicine?
Only take ipecac syrup if directed by your emergency health care provider or poison control center; seek emergency help and advice right away.

If ipecac treatment is appropriate, give ipecac as soon after ingestion of the poison or drug overdose as possible; ideally, within 1 hour. Follow the directions on the label. Shake well before using. Use a specially marked spoon or container to measure the medicine; household spoons are not always accurate. Take ipecac syrup by mouth while standing or seated. Take with plenty of water (8 ounces for adults or 4 ounces for small children). Do not take with milk or food. The water may be given first in the case of small or scared children. Do not lie down for at least an hour after taking ipecac.

Vomiting may not occur for 20 minutes after taking ipecac. If vomiting does not occur within 20 minutes, repeat the dose. If vomiting does not occur after the second dose, follow the instructions provided by your health care provider or poison control center. Do not take more than the recommended dose, do not take extra doses, and do not take more often than directed.

What if I miss a dose?
This does not apply.

What drug(s) may interact with ipecac?
• alcohol
• charcoal
• medicines that treat nausea and vomiting (examples: promethazine, granisetron, ondansetron, prochlorperazine and thiethylperazine)

Tell your prescriber or health care professional about all other medicines you are taking, including non-prescription medicines, nutritional supplements, or herbal products. Also tell your prescriber or health care professional if you are a frequent user of drinks with caffeine or alcohol, if you smoke, or if you use illegal drugs. These may affect the way your medicine works. Check with your health care professional before stopping or starting any of your medicines.

What should I watch for while taking ipecac?
Contact your nearest poison control center or the National Poison Control hotline (1—800—222—1222) before you take ipecac or give ipecac to another person. Some poisonings or overdoses should not be treated with ipecac syrup.

Do not take ipecac syrup with milk or food.

Do not give ipecac syrup to an unconscious, very confused, or drowsy person.

What side effects may I notice from taking ipecac?
Side effects that you should report to your prescriber or health care professional as soon as possible:
• black, tarry stools
• dizziness or fainting spells
• fast or irregular heartbeat
• cough, chest pain, or trouble breathing
• coughing up blood
• fever
• muscle weakness or stiffness
• nausea or vomiting that lasts longer than 2 hours
• severe diarrhea
• severe headache
• unusual tiredness

Side effects that usually do not require medical attention (report to your prescriber or health care professional if they continue or are bothersome):
• stomach pain
• diarrhea
• drowsiness

 

[Sunny the Hippie Chick]

I would not use Ipecac. I heard that can be bad stuff. I would use the food coloring. Or use the liquid cherry flavored laxitive and add it to cherry flavored Nyquil. You will know who has used it.

It may be her friends when they come over. It might not be her. I would let her have a sleep over with her best friend. Then put a bottle back in the cuboard a few days before the friend comes over. But dont put the added stuff in until that night. For safety reasons with the friend. I would use the food coloring trick.

I would also as her about how she feels. Why she needs meds., does she have a headache. There could be a medical reason she is hiding from you. Next time she wants meds., take her to the doctor. Say your conserned about her because she has been taking cold meds for so long you think she may have a medical condition.

About the myspace and stuff like that. You can do a google search and find a free keylogger. Your computer will memorize all the keystrokes. You can get passwords and stuff like that. But if your kid is crafty with the computer they can find out you have a keylogger, but not access it. If you want to buy one I have found one that is around $50 and it is invisiable except for the one who knows about it. Its a great device to know what is going on. That way you know if she is actually doing and talking about illegal stuff to other kids. ANd you could find out where all the kid drinking parties are and turn them in so it gets busted by the cops. That will cut down on alots of kids drinking. And you can find out what friends might be peer pressuring her to drink meds.

Another thing. If she is taking cold meds. Its for the alcohol. If you hide the meds. Then she will seek out the actual alcohol.

Good luck on figuring out what will work best for you.

 

[chicks4kids]

Thanks so much for all of the advice and encouraging words. I'll keep everyone posted...

I'm sure she will deny it, so I've decided to put the temptation out there.

(Please don't bash) I absolutely LOVE the food coloring idea. There's no question in that!! I will be dosing the bottle with some red food coloring for sure!!

Not the Ipecac.

Tonight, we'll watch her to see if she uses it. Our family is a stickler for facts and not assumptions or speculations, so we have to do it this way--to literally wear the proof on her face, to catch her red handed (faced). Then we will know FOR SURE that it's her. I don't want to give her the opportunity to blame someone else, and without absolute proof, she would. I believe sincerely.

I'll keep you all posted. Thanks again for all of the advice, suggestions, and prayers. I need it so much! I know I'm not the only one out there, but when we're sitting here, going through it, it sure seems like it!!

Thank you very much and thank you for understanding how hard this was to post this topic. I sure appreciate that everyone was sincere and not telling me what I did wrong, but rather offered the most sincerest of words. It helps us to come to a quicker decision on how to go about handling this delicate situation.

to everyone. I'll keep you posted.

 

[Germaine_11.20]

I will be thinking of you

 

[Three Cedars Silkies]

Prayers for you and for your daughter!!

Papa...you made each of us and know us well...and we know that you are especially fond of chicks4kids daughter. Please wrap your arms around her and her parents. We thank you for loving us and know that you want only the best for each of us. Hold this family in your hands until the struggle is ceased and she surrenders to your love. In Jesus name...AMEN and AMEN...

 

[AmyRey]

Gosh. 11. So young.

You said she's asked you for the NyQuil twice. That's a good sign, imo. Most abusers (even sneaky teenagers who are NOT using drugs) will go to great lengths to conceal their activities. The fact that she's asking you for it leads me to believe that perhaps she's having trouble sleeping? Did the requests come before bedtime?

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