Valarie I DO understand what you are saying. I am available 24/7 except when I am napping all day. But would still catch up and be there for you.
For 9 mos. talked to what I believed was a daughter to be. I thought we'd have great times and go shopping together, and talk about boys. I didn't know anything about sports , turned out I didn't need to know. My son only cared about computers. He says I am too dumb to understand and YET I am still here. Thank heaven.