Sooner or later all chicks leave the nest.
You sound like a level-headed, responsible young adult, one that any parent would and should be proud of.
My advice as a parent of 2 young adults and the daughter of 2 alcoholic parents is for you to do what you need to do to live a productive life and stand on your own two feet. Keep the lines of communication open with your Dad, but on your terms. Your Mom has to come to her own terms, with both you and your Dad. You can't help or change them, you can only help yourself.
You sound like a level-headed, responsible young adult, one that any parent would and should be proud of.
My advice as a parent of 2 young adults and the daughter of 2 alcoholic parents is for you to do what you need to do to live a productive life and stand on your own two feet. Keep the lines of communication open with your Dad, but on your terms. Your Mom has to come to her own terms, with both you and your Dad. You can't help or change them, you can only help yourself.