So sorry for your loss! I have lost one chicken to a loose dog and almost lost one when a friends' dog visited and got out of my back door. What helped me with the guilt was reaffirming my commitment to keep the remaining flock as safe as possible.
If you talked to a trainer that said the dog can't be trained not to kill chickens, I say find a new trainer. It can definitely be done. I agree the shock collars are not cruel if used properly and for certain problems, like this one. Keep in mind that a small amount of discomfort for the dog will help you get the dog to a point where it can have more freedom and therefore a much better quality of life.
My dogs have a strong prey drive but both have been trained not to harm chickens. I can even leave them alone with the chickens when they are free ranging. One of my dogs regularly kills mice, rats, even squirrels and opossums, and chases seagulls and pigeons, but she knows that chickens are off limits. Each of my dogs went to 3 levels of obedience classes, each about 6 weeks long, meeting once per week, in a group. Each class was only $60. I highly recommend this as a starting point to learn training techniques, how to communicate with dogs, and to get professional advice on specific problems.
It will be a lot of work - that's why so many people think it can't be done...because most people don't put in the hard work or they just don't know how to train dogs. Training dogs is not intuitive for most of us, I was no exception even though I grew up with dogs and worked as a vet tech for many years. I learned the techniques from professionals and I really think this is a great way to go. Good luck!
If you talked to a trainer that said the dog can't be trained not to kill chickens, I say find a new trainer. It can definitely be done. I agree the shock collars are not cruel if used properly and for certain problems, like this one. Keep in mind that a small amount of discomfort for the dog will help you get the dog to a point where it can have more freedom and therefore a much better quality of life.
My dogs have a strong prey drive but both have been trained not to harm chickens. I can even leave them alone with the chickens when they are free ranging. One of my dogs regularly kills mice, rats, even squirrels and opossums, and chases seagulls and pigeons, but she knows that chickens are off limits. Each of my dogs went to 3 levels of obedience classes, each about 6 weeks long, meeting once per week, in a group. Each class was only $60. I highly recommend this as a starting point to learn training techniques, how to communicate with dogs, and to get professional advice on specific problems.
It will be a lot of work - that's why so many people think it can't be done...because most people don't put in the hard work or they just don't know how to train dogs. Training dogs is not intuitive for most of us, I was no exception even though I grew up with dogs and worked as a vet tech for many years. I learned the techniques from professionals and I really think this is a great way to go. Good luck!