I'm fairly new here, but in time, perhaps, folk will learn that I generally have good support for the statements I make. And this is no exception. I live among Buddhists, and have lived among them in multiple parts of the world. Buddhist restaurants in Taiwan, for example, serve a completely vegan menu. Buddhists in much of Southeast Asia will eat meat, as you say, excusing themselves in saying that the Chinese butcher already killed it--might as well eat it! Even the monks will eat meat in this part of the world because a Buddhist precept states that, since all desire is bad, and to have a favorite food or food preference would be to have desire, they must eat whatever is set before them with neither enjoyment nor distaste. Since the mother knows her monk-son likes to eat chicken, she places it in his bowl during his morning alms rounds. He must eat it! Technically, though, this is not true Buddhism, and is sometimes called "folk Buddhism." A true Buddhist should be vegetarian. Siddhartha Gautama ("Buddha") did not start the Buddhist religion. It was started by his followers after he died. He himself did eat meat, as you have said, and he died several days after eating infected pork.
My Buddhist relatives will fan their hand or blow at the mosquito that is on their arm, to chase it away without killing it. I have witnessed this. Clapping at a mosquito may draw eyes around here. I am not Buddhist, and will happily kill them. My relatives are presumably glad that I did so!
I didn't understand the "stole" statement to be actual theft, but used euphemistically. I could be wrong, in this, but the description was certainly not so clear as to remain unambiguous. As for the "flock" rationale, of chickens being social creatures and no one should keep just one, as it would be lonely in isolation, what happens if an owner loses all but one to, say, a dog attack? Should the owner suddenly be reported for having only one? (Reminds me of the Uno game, where, if but one card remains, one must self-declare the fact to avoid being penalized by the other players.)
I'm glad you don't have their address. Government overreach, nosy neighbors, and a "report everything" attitude add up to situations like that encountered and remarked upon
HERE.
No, I am certainly not playing devil's advocate. Read the above responses to IgorsMistress to learn more.