lol It's very interesting to me to hear about how others feel about the holidays. I once had a co-worker tell me that she celebrated the holidays because they were so much fun. But then she spent the next few weeks in tears because of all the pressure she was feeling about the holidays. I just didn't get it. If your crying all the time, then it can't be that much fun as far as I can see.
I do understand how the kids can still enjoy it. I also understand that there is something special about seeing a wrapped gift. There is a wonderful sense of anticipation that is wrapped up in the package. I have found that I enjoy looking at a wrapped gift even when the gift is for someone else, and I know whats in the box. lol It must have something to do with the waiting to open up a surprise.
All this holiday talk reminds me of a scrapbook page I did way back when...
I grew up in a home where "if" we had a tree, it was not decorated much. Our only tree decorations where donated to us from our church - they were plastic apples. Our tree usually arrived on Christmas Eve when the tree lots were clearing them out. I remember years where the Boy Scouts delivered the only presents we had. When we'd ask why Santa brought other kids presents, but we didn't get any, my mom would tell us that Santa knew other children needed things more than we did.
My husband grew up in a family where holidays are a big deal and he cherishes the holidays, along with the rest of his family. We've adopted his family's lifestyle toward holidays and I do enjoy it, but the work of it does come down on me. That part gets frustrating. I do all the decorations and usually hang the outside lights, too. There's a lot that goes into it. But, I do it for my kids in hopes that they will grow up and cherish the holidays the way their daddy, aunt and uncles do.
To make the holidays easier, I've learned how to plan ahead. I've had all my kid's Christmas shopping completed for a month now. In November I'll begin to work on Christmas cards. Decorating for Christmas has always been the stickler since my eldest's birthday is in the beginning of December and we don't decorate until his birthday is over. That's what puts me under pressure. By the time I'm done with his birthday party, I'm usually wiped out and have absolutely no desire to decorate for a while.