what do you do when you can make friends easily, but keeping them is hard because they cannot tolerate the quirks in the personality that i do not have much control of or are aware of? i cannot say i am sorry because i cannot guarantee it wouldn't happen again. so just keep trying to make friends and hope some can tolerate my personality?
finally learned why a guy i became friends with 2 months ago stopped talking to me 4 weeks ago.
i tend to interrupt people in converstation. i do not do it on purpose, and it is not as bad as it used to be. my parents have learned how to work with me. my boyfriends methods are more blunt. if i interrupt him on the phone, he warns me, if i do it again, he hangs up and calls back and he has my full attention. but he loves me and tries his best to tolerate my quirks
another byproduct from middleschool and highschool is the tendence to "talk down" or pick on people, i was always the one who was picked on so that is the learned behavior, and both behaviors i am not normally aware of. though i do like to "push peoples buttons"
but it seems this guys cannot tolerate my quirky personality, and isn't really aware i am not interrupting on purpose.
since he doesn't want to talk to me, and as stated above i cannot say i am sorry. do i just lose him as a friend? it seems he already has distanced himself well from me.... -sigh- not a good monday.
on another note my birthmother tells me my half blood brother is probably going to kill himself before the end of the week.... i only met him once.... -sigh-