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[Chickielady]

Our partnership has proven to work.
We are enseperable, together all day/night/24/7 and adore each other.
We both wanted to just 'be' together, and give it a go.
And we work so good together we have never parted.
After 4-5 years I said OK, time to get married, this obviously works fine, this relationship..but sweetie is dragging his feet and I think it has something to do with his girls talking him out of it.
They really hate me, not only for taking Daddy away, but for their Mother rejecting & leaving them and then she died, they stepped in as wives, hence the "Electra Complex"
Seriously, they did everything a wife would do but you know what.
It enfuriated them when I stepped into their lives, and took Daddy away.
They have been extremely cruel to me.
And I do not really care, being an adult.
They are grown now, and still mean.
They send Christmas Cards addresses to him only, and invitatios to him only.
I used to spend alot of money buying them B_D gifts & Christmas,, & cards, etc...and NEVER did any of them so much as say thanks to me, they allways call him & say thanks Dad.
He usually has to come ask me what I sent htem after he told them they are welcome.
I no longer send gifts nor cards, and HE NEVER remembers to do so, ever.
It must break their poor little hearts that Daddy forgets their birthdays all of a sudden...wonder why??????????

What goes around, comes around.

 

[Chickielady]

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I have several acres of them you can have for free!!!

 

[renart]

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I have several acres of them you can have for free!!!

I have some Scotch broom you can take, and umm transplant it onto your property Dave! Put it with CL's blackberry plants!

 

[4cats3kids1hubby2many]

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I hope you know I was just kidding!!!

Hell yes! I'm playin along wif ya BT (I read your name as Broody-toad and it makes me laugh every time)


Dave

Dave - brave man for the slip comment - I could so make so many comments right now....but I know we have to behave....dang.

But, I used to see Broodytood as "toad" also. Glad it was not only me.

 

[Ogress]

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You know....and this is just my opinion...but your man may like the living situation as is, but if you put it to him as a business partnership, and you guys make it legal, then both of you are protected in case something happens to either of you. He loves you and I can't imagine him wanting to leave your butt hanging if something should happen to him. Just reassure hime that it doesn't change how the relationship works on a daily basis. You both deserve to feel secure and taken care of. Hopefully he will see that it's the right thing to do. He is such a nice guy and seeing how he is around you, I think you guys will work it out the best way for both of you in your own time. You are such a cute couple! But I read your comment about the free samples and I feel for you sister!

But why buy the ... O never mind I'm not up for a spankin today !!!!

You don't get a spanking, at least not for that. You did the right thing!

 

[cheryl98117]

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I was right. Dr. says its Pleurosy. Left lung is more inflamed than the right. But BOY dose it ever hurt. only 9 more days of prednisone, Im supposed to be taing vicodine as well, but that med maes me sic as well. So I will tough it out with just the steroid. Sure makes shoveling manure and dumping the wheelbarrow a litteral pain... Let alone my own farm chores and house hold chores, and taing care of DD... I thin ive gotten maby 10 hours of sleep this week.

On top of being sick, my clients are late paying me, my flock is being fed vegi scraps and horse grains at the moment. Ive been milking a quarter tank of gas for the past 4 days, and I havnt had any help excersizing the horses. I tried to ride last night, but big 'ol Red was WAY to full of himself and I was in to much pain. About got dumped when he started to crow hop at the lope, I started to get mad, so I said enough is enough. No excersize under saddle for anyone unless my sister or step dad get off there rears and come help me. I just dont have the strength to work my job, my farm, care for DD, and excersize 5 horses. Gotta wait until my lungs are better.

Did you ask Dr. for another pain killer the -V make me ill too, but I have taken it in reduced dosage just 1 for sleep or 1 for work, utill prednisone has reduced whatever needs it, I have Rhumatoid Arther.
Hope you get to feeling better soon -

I did mention my problems with V. But other alternatives mae me sick as well. Im not supposed to take anything that is processed through the liver. So that alone narrows my options down to only a few meds.

This is my 7th go round with Plourosy in the past 3 years. I went 6 months of my pregnancy with DD having Plourosy. That was MUCH worse than what I am dealing with now.

Thanks for the concern though!

As you can see Im doing my best to eep my spirits up.

 

[Ogress]

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[pettec63]

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x 20! You can't live on the pay alone.

H** no! I worked as a Tech for 10 yrs as a single mom raising two kids, I took all the shifts i could get and worked 7 days a week for 6 yrs!! Finally when I worked both for a private practice during the day and Emergency at night and they wouldn't give me differential or a pay raise, (while the DRs were buying new cars and building houses) I said, that's it!!! And as much as I loved being a tech and I thought it was my calling, now, after being out of practice for 6 years, I couldn't go back anyway, cause I've beat my body up so bad I couldn't lift and bend like before now anyway!! Anyway when I left practice in 04 I made a whopping 11 dollars an hr!! whoo hoo!!!

 

[cheryl98117]

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I was right. Dr. says its Pleurosy. Left lung is more inflamed than the right. But BOY dose it ever hurt. only 9 more days of prednisone, Im supposed to be taing vicodine as well, but that med maes me sic as well. So I will tough it out with just the steroid. Sure makes shoveling manure and dumping the wheelbarrow a litteral pain... Let alone my own farm chores and house hold chores, and taing care of DD... I thin ive gotten maby 10 hours of sleep this week.

On top of being sick, my clients are late paying me, my flock is being fed vegi scraps and horse grains at the moment. Ive been milking a quarter tank of gas for the past 4 days, and I havnt had any help excersizing the horses. I tried to ride last night, but big 'ol Red was WAY to full of himself and I was in to much pain. About got dumped when he started to crow hop at the lope, I started to get mad, so I said enough is enough. No excersize under saddle for anyone unless my sister or step dad get off there rears and come help me. I just dont have the strength to work my job, my farm, care for DD, and excersize 5 horses. Gotta wait until my lungs are better.

Can you lunge him a while first to get the P&V out of him ?
Used to work for me...
Too bad you do not have a hot walker, then turn it on HIGH!!!

I do work him first! For a good 20 minutes. He's just a very big, very forward, hot Appy Walker cross. Supposed to be a QH but there is NO way that he is a quarter horse. Ive never seen a gaited QH, he built uphill as well.

I would LOVE a hot walker! Would mae woring all these guys MUCH easier!

 

[pettec63]

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yeaa!