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CR: Others will not be "bothered". They will be happy to help, just like you enjoyed helping them. This was a lesson God taught me three years ago. I hated to ask for help, I was the helper, always independent. Then I had a brain tumor, and brain surgery. I was totally helpless. And people came out of the woodwork to help. It made them feel good to be able to help. When you refuse help, you deny them the opportunity to do something that makes them feel good. Really. So don't be stubborn. Ask for help. If I lived close to you, I would be happy to help. Actually, I don't even know where Ethel is, lol. I was thinking you are on the other side of the mountains, but now I will have to go look.
Okay, there seems to be an Ethel in Lewis County and one in Benton County. Which one are you in? Lewis County is fairly close, but Benton is many hours away. Where are ya, Rustler?
BTW, loved that pic this morning! Looks like you were having a ball!
Yes I am in Lewis County. Just off Hwy 12 5 Miles east of I-5
Then you are not that far from me! Wed and Thurs I have grandbabies to care for, but I am free Fri-Sun. What could I do to help? You can PM me or Facebook message me (since we are FBook friends--unless you unfriended me, lol) I can feed, water, pick up groceries or animal feed or whatever you need. On Sat I could even bring a sort of snotty 17 year old son, who can lift heavy stuff! You name it, we can help!