I always buy a small box of chocolates, but I also buy one for the kids. We don't go out or do anything different. I think if he were to buy me a diamond or something I'd whap him for spending the money...lol. I'd rather have a new kitchen floor with that kind of money. We keep it simple. My birthday is three days after V day. We usually keep that simple but since it's my 40th this year we are going out to dinner. I picked the restaurant and it's one that gives the birthday person their dinner free. I'm cheap...lol