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Thank you all for sending the prayers and many more are still needed.
The surrgery went very well, but he will not follow the doctors orders unless they are standing right there,I know he is in terrible pain even with the meds but he is supose to use his breathing thingy once every hour and he won't, he tells the doctors he is but they know better cause he still could not reach the 500 mark on the breathing thingy and he should be at 1500 by now, they xrayed his lungs three times yesterday, at first i did not know why then the doctors came in with the news, his lungs are starting to colaps in the lower lobes and i just got home and called back up there and my daughter said he has now started to develope fluid on his lungs, i don't know what is going to happen next, his kidneys are also having problems but i have said all along that there was something wrong with his kindneys especialy when the doctors had mentioned every time he has been in the last 4 times the Creatine(not sure of spelling) is to high but i might as well have been talking to the wall.
I am sorry to ramble so much i just know if he does not listen he will not be leaving that place any time soon.
My daughters said he was crying and said he was depressed, i know he did not want me to go but i have to and i needed to for my own sanity, i told them he does not want to be alone and they are staying in a hotel down the road tonight and i will be back up ther in the morning, i really hope he will listen to me when i get back, i am trying to help him in every way i can so mabe me being gone tonight will help him understand that, i feel sorry for his nurses he is a real sweet heart but will throw up his hands and shut down if they try to push him to do something that hurts.
On a good note my critters were so happy to see mom home, i could not even get to the door and it was not cause they were hungry they all still had food in the containers they really missed me and i missed them terribly also they are my friends.
Well thanks for the ear and prayers.
ZAZ
PS sorry about the spelling , i am to tired to do spell check.
The surrgery went very well, but he will not follow the doctors orders unless they are standing right there,I know he is in terrible pain even with the meds but he is supose to use his breathing thingy once every hour and he won't, he tells the doctors he is but they know better cause he still could not reach the 500 mark on the breathing thingy and he should be at 1500 by now, they xrayed his lungs three times yesterday, at first i did not know why then the doctors came in with the news, his lungs are starting to colaps in the lower lobes and i just got home and called back up there and my daughter said he has now started to develope fluid on his lungs, i don't know what is going to happen next, his kidneys are also having problems but i have said all along that there was something wrong with his kindneys especialy when the doctors had mentioned every time he has been in the last 4 times the Creatine(not sure of spelling) is to high but i might as well have been talking to the wall.
I am sorry to ramble so much i just know if he does not listen he will not be leaving that place any time soon.
My daughters said he was crying and said he was depressed, i know he did not want me to go but i have to and i needed to for my own sanity, i told them he does not want to be alone and they are staying in a hotel down the road tonight and i will be back up ther in the morning, i really hope he will listen to me when i get back, i am trying to help him in every way i can so mabe me being gone tonight will help him understand that, i feel sorry for his nurses he is a real sweet heart but will throw up his hands and shut down if they try to push him to do something that hurts.
On a good note my critters were so happy to see mom home, i could not even get to the door and it was not cause they were hungry they all still had food in the containers they really missed me and i missed them terribly also they are my friends.
Well thanks for the ear and prayers.
ZAZ
PS sorry about the spelling , i am to tired to do spell check.