webbysmeme
Crowing
Thank youDon't be. Nothing to be sorry for! Screen names often don't give much of a clue as to gender and most of don't post pics of ourselves (yours is very lovely, btw), so it's hard to tell.
A bit of esoteric knowledge that has helped me: if you want a particular person to see your post, you can "tag" them. Start with the @ symbol and right after that (no space) begin typing their screen name. A list of people whose names start with the letters you've typed so far will pop up, so usually all you have to remember are the first 3-4 letters, then when you see the person you want, in the pop-up, click or tap on them. That will insert a tag and the person you have tagged will get a notification to come and look.
