Welcome to my Pity Party....

booker81

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Today was a day of massive, exponential suck....actually it started last night when the...wait...no, it started last EVENING, when DD started having a bad cough and temp. I spent part of the night with her in her bed, and part in my own, getting up and down to care for her (DH and I determine who will be the "up all night" parent depending on who will stay home the next day, and we rotate). She was miserable, hoarking cough (no whooping or croupy).

So up and down all night. Until about 11pm, when the freaking power goes out. Kiddo freaks out (she's only three), so I'm rambling around to figure out what to do to get her calm, DH gets smart and grabs the portable DVD player and powers it up for her. She calms down, and I report the outage. Of course, no power means no fan for the sound, and no furnace....so it's getting colder and colder, and I can't sleep.

About 4am, we get power on, sweet. I know I'm not going to work, kid is too sick. I finally get the kid comfy, she's sleeping (PS, YAY honey!), and sleep until 5:30 am. Email my manager and TL to say I won't be in, give the lowdown on my projects, and also call in on the sick line for work.

Not too bad.

Until about 8am when I try to call to get the freaking doc office to get DD in, and they've changed their number. The new number ALSO doesn't work. Apparently they don't have after hours message, so it just rings. At 9, I start getting the regular recording - which insists on looping me. After pressing 1 to make an appointment and getting the same message to press one, I hang up and try again. Get through, to be put on hold for 10 mins. Finally get through, and since they changed affiliation with hospitals, have to go through the whole entering info in, and then to find my 1pm appointment they said I could have got book...so I got a 4:30. Only took calling repeatedly and panicking for an hour and a half to get an appointment.

Been better, but starting to head down suck lane.

As soon as I hang up with the doc, my dad calls. Mom is drunk and sitting in the garage. He's riled, but I'm not going to drive out there to deal with her and a sick kid, so I tell him to pack her up and take her to rehab and drop her there. I guess she started up yesterday again, but she's full blown now. She fought with him about it, but he pretty much dumped her off there, and left once her Breathalyzer test went past 2.0. He's talking about leaving again. Told him he can stay here in the upstairs room if he needs to. She's a frequent flier at the rehab, so they'll sober her up and ship her home. Found out she's been "cheeking" her Antabuse, found a partially dissolved pill in her truck.

Now heading to epic suck territory.

At 4pm, pack up the kiddo, and start to head to the doc. Pull out on the main road, and all heck breaks loose on the front end - clanking and grinding. Pull over and can't see anything falling off. Turn around and head back home at 5mph, waiting for the tire to fall off. At this point, I lose it, call the doc to cancel while crying, and have DD in the back asking me why I'm crying. Tell her I'm sad because the car is broken. Get back home, call Dad again to see if I can borrow a vehicle from them. Call DH and tell him to hurry home because I'm at the end of my wits. He hurries
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Stick a fork in me, I'm done.

On a good note, Dad drove over with his truck, and DH was home so he sent me with Dad to take him back home. DH called a mechanic friend, and is limping my truck to him, think it's either a bad brake pad broke off, or a ball joint. Luckily, we have the funds right now to take care of it.

DH is taking the day off tomorrow to stay with DD, so I get to go back to work - where I'd MUCH rather be. DD is sleeping right now. DH made dinner, and is being very nice and gentle to me.

I blame it on the moon.

This day SUCKED.
 
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I feel for you, I really do.

Just be grateful your husband is still alive, because I would go through h--l and back to have him with me again. I would face any number of days like the one you describe to have him at my side again, so please, be grateful for what IS going right in your life.
 
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some days are just like that. On the bright side you have a great husband for knowing when you need nice and gentle, there are a lot out there who don't get that!
 
Oh, the man is the rock in my life. I thank every.single.day I have with him. Especially days like these. I don't know what I would do without him, and honestly, after hearing of what you've gone through, I panic about the thought of losing him. When the you know what hits the fan, he's the only person I can turn to, and lean on always.

That's why he's driving that hunk of junk over to his friend's house - he's taking care of making sure it gets fixed, and just letting me have the evening off
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He made us dinner, chats about his day to keep the world moving around, and just soothes me more than any Xanax or anything.

Funny - I was going to post a happy thread yesterday - job is great, kid is great, marriage is great, life is great. Then today took a bit of wind out of my sails....

ETA: And yes - I tell him how happy I am with him, and show him at every chance. I don't want something to happen one day and for him to ever question what he means to me.
 
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oooh can I join in...
Today sucked!, and well saturday mostly sucked.
I have had a little cough and a little sore throat for over a week now...Saturday was a lovely warm day, wasted at a farm auction bidding for a friend...
My little cough turns into a full blown bit of bronchitis, and that deep hacking cough that doesn't want to go away.
So yesterday I go to a poultry swap, and it rains.. buckets. we left the umbrella in the vehicle.. didn't get too wet or anything..
But i am tired, I had to set up 2 separate QT pens for the new poultry.
I have to take the battery cable off my truck battery when I stop to go in some where, it will drain the battery otherwise, that just started Thursday...
DH is working 5 extra hours a week at work now and comes home exhausted and sleeps...
I cooked most of dinner with plans to take a nap with him.. and now am too awake...
So have MORE medicine, still doesn't seem to be helping yet...
My dog keeps rolling in something stinky and gross at the barn...
And I have to plan my days to be back home by 3pm, so I can pick up my niece when she gets off the bus.

And I am tired of coughing...
bleh.
 
You MOMS are incredible! You are tougher than the toughest virus and can still kick butt. Without MOMS like you the world would wither and die.
 

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