Finally did...
And, to put it kindly...
Her (and my baby sis) have a VASTLY different view of the universe than do I.
So, no, reconciliation will never be possible, we will be kind, but I will never again allow my kids to be alone with any of them.
Well.... On the positive side, at least now you know and can prevent any future damage.
This x1,000!@Alaskan I agree that your first obligation is to your kids - as parents we protect them. I am on your team.