My boss the director of the kitchens. . she has a son just a couple years older than the boy that passed. He was in the hospital a few years back from a auto immune disorder and almost died from swelling on his brain. He has recovered remarkably well but the damage to his brain effects his emotional sensory. . . he is having a hard time of it trying to process and understand. So flipping sad. She doesn't know how to comfort him or what to say. . .