You must feel like everyone is against you right now. Well, it is not true. Things will get better.
My 2 cents - Do what you can to make sure your chickens are taken care of then concentrate on moving. Keep in contact with BYC.
I know what it is like to have most of your family believing that you are going to hell and that you deserve it. You just have to remember, that for some reason, they are more comfortable being hateful and have difficulty just loving. I really feel very sorry for most of my family because they spend so much time and energy looking for a reason to be negative and devisive instead of making things positive and beautiful.
Hang in there, sweetie. It will be OK.
Chicken Boo