Maybe we need to invest in an automatic feeder /waterer so when we do have these days where we decide, im gonna git this done PERIOD... we are allowed to sleep in, most of the next day and not have to worry about feeding / watering / etc, because it's being done automatically !

I have a 3-gallon metal fount waterer and a 5-gallon PVC hanging bucket feeder. I only have to refill the waterer every 10 days and a half full feeder bucket lasts 10 days. That's for 10 chickens in my flock. My chickens required less than 5 minutes of work per day on average.
Also, I tend to the chickens when I get up. If I sleep in, I refuse to feel guilty about it. I do not set my alarm to wake me up to go let the chickens out. They have to wait until I'm ready.
I lock them up at night usually a half hour before sunset. They go into the coop themselves. I can see the chicken run from my kitchen and dining room windows, so when the chickens are no longer in the run, I go and shut the pop door on the coop for the night.
I have considered getting an automatic door, but, for now, I like having to go outside twice a day to open/close the pop door. I count the chickens, check on their food and water, and make sure nothing looks abnormal in their behavior. If I had an automatic door, then I would probably not take the time to check up on them like that.
Well, I would still have to collect the eggs daily. In any case, chickens make wonderful animals to keep. They don't take much effort if you have a good setup, and you get eggs from them. In my case, I have composting chickens which make tons of compost for my gardens and I get eggs as a bonus. What's not to love about that?