Father's side of family were mostly born and raised in Italy,including my dad. He was #7 of 11 kids and I have 46 first cousins! MY grandpapa owned a restaurant so we shutdown on the 24th+25th of DEC. For Christmas Eve dinner,we'd have 13 different seafood preparations...but no meat. My favorites were the mussels marinara,papparadelle with red clam sauce and stuffed cuttlefish gratinee. Dinner took many hours. Since I grew up in SE West Virginia,it was quite cold and snowy late December. Still,this didn't stop grandpapa from going outside,building a fire in the pit and roasting chestnuts to go with the grappa, coffee and cheesecake! Then the kids, finally,got to open up their gifts from family. We celebrated the year's bounty and prosperity-success with the restaurant. There was no "Santa Claus?" After presents,we(including kids,) all got ready for midnight mass. On Christmas day,it was always each individual household that celebrated as they saw fit. We ate a big supper and opened stockings. We also got a tangerine,because they were considered a special treat and the fresh crop from Florida came at that time of year.
When I went away to the US Army,it seems I never got back home for the holidays because young bucks are at the bottom of a very long list of RANK HATH ITS PRIVILEGES! By the time I was able to take off for the holidays,my grandparents and most of my uncles and aunts were mostly dead or just about done digging their hole in the ground. My new tradition,at least for the past 26 years,is to go out and splurge at the sushi bar and buy,at least $250 of nigiri and sashimi forget the rice roll thingies. I'm going to Tampa with wife in tow, to see her folks and hang out at the beach all day. I'll even bring my little propane bbq and fire up some turkey dogs and sausage?
One last thing that's been a thorn in my side...
we break out the "redneck teef" and regale the family with christmas carols that we change the words to...
what do y'all have against rednecks? Having lived half my life on the "REDNECK RIVIERA" and my childhood in Appalachia, I take offense to the tone of that sentence. Are you implying that a majority of "rednecks" have buck "teef" and therefore improper or less proficient dental care than where you reside? What are you talking about,DUDE?
All y'all take care!