Acceptance is a big part of raising rabbits. When we breed our rabbits, we litterally toss the dice and hope for the best. We do certain things to make sure everything goes our way but it is just going to be what the pips read when they stop moving. Without acceptance it can drive a person batty. The rabbits might breed just fine, or they might not or they might get into a big fight or the doe might bite off and neuter an insistant male. The breeding may never take, the buck could be infertile, the doe could have too much fat around her organs, the moon might be out of phase, the doe might reabsorb the kits in the first week... They may have 12 healthy kits and raise them out, they may have the first kit get stuck and they die or anything inbetween. The fact is that once we choose the date and put the doe in with the buck everything else is pretty much out of our hands! And every once in a while we roll craps and we loose. We just gotta keep looking forward to the times when the dice land on our numbers!
Earless and its littermates all passed away. Soup, my mom who was due the same week as my other doe had her first litter... She had the same problem (over cleaning) and I only found half of a kit in her cage, nest made but not used. She just didn't know what to do.
In better news, Lucy my rescue rabbit who is like 3 yrs old is probably the best mom we have eve had. Her litter of four is huge and healthy. They are freindly and Lucy herself is proving to be smart and considerate, doing things like moving to the second water bottle or food bowl instead of fighting her kits for the first one! She is a great mom!
Sorry to hear about the kits.