What Should I Do?...

[ChickenPeep]

I know exactly how you feel LittleLady98! I have neighbors that (used to) spend the whole day at my house and depend on us for lunch and snacks. It seemed like every 5 minutes I would hear that young little voice say "I'm kinda hungry".

I didn't want to kick them out of my house though.

I also had my brother's friend steal my phone, but instead of reading my texts, he called all of my contacts and said stupid stuff.

Your neighbors shouldn't have read your texts.
It's not a crime to not like someone, you can have your own opinon. Not everyone's going to like you, and you just have to deal with it.

 

[OldGuy43]

It is NOT your fault. You did NOTHING wrong.

Although, I wonder if they, if they're your age, use your stuff (I am not saying that it is right. You shouldn't let them without permission. Girl, I love ya like a sister, but say no. XD ) because they get treated badly at home, or have no access to things like that. Sometimes (relating to experiences and using my own knowledge of human biology), when people don't have access to technology, or something popular, that when they come into contact with it, they're amazed. Something in the brain turns on (There's a name for this kinda thing, and I TOTALLY cannot remember it), and they cannot maintain a grip on the fact that it's not theirs, and they have no right to touch something that isn't theirs. They just are not used to it, and want to see what it does. Now, I'm not saying this is the case, this is just me wondering if it's the cause. I've dealt with things like this, and it's just a fact of human biology.

As may be, that does not explain reading her mail.

 

[TechnoCat]

Maybe they were curious about what it was, or something.

 

[LittleLady98]

Maybe they were curious about what it was, or something.

It specifically said "Text Messages"...

 

[rebelcowboysnb]

I also had my brother's friend steal my phone, but instead of reading my texts, he called all of my contacts and said stupid stuff.

I was at a rather wild party one time where a girl got my phone an was calling all my friends asking them to come to the party.... One of those friends of mine is the Sheriff... It did not hit her that Patrick was that Patrick....

 

[OldGuy43]

Maybe they were curious about what it was, or something.

Or, more likely they are just boorish clods who have no comprehension of privacy.

 

[TechnoCat]

Or, more likely they are just boorish clods who have no comprehension of privacy.

Probably. :3 And that would be due to treatment at home, I'm guessing.

 

[OldGuy43]

Quote: While it may(?) be an environmental issue, I'd be more willing to believe a lack of respect for others, but either way;

Bad Behavior is bad behavior!
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There is no excuse. Making apologies for them will not correct the problem, will it?

 

[TechnoCat]

While it may(?) be an environmental issue, I'd be more willing to believe a lack of respect for others, but either way;

Bad Behavior is bad behavior!​

There is no excuse. Making apologies for them will not correct the problem, will it?

Took the words right outta my mouth.

 

[TinyChickenLady]

I have one of those unwanted neighbors. Unfortunately, I haven't left home yet and my mother doesn't like me so she allows the neighbor to belittle me and make fun of me. I've informed my mother that although it may be her house, it is my self esteem and ego that this woman is trying to ruin and I will NOT allow it. I used to be overly polite and allow "guests" to act how they want but that ship has sailed! I now stand up for myself (while still using my manners) and tell her exactly how things are. She will not take my things, will not talk down to me and will NOT walk all over myself and my family.
My mother is finally seeing the light whit her as well. She is over constantly. She is not a fan of people trying to keep their home organized and taken care of if she is there, that takes attention away from her and that is not okay. She will come over and take all of my mothers cigarettes, baking essentials, whatever she wants. Instead of going the 3 miles into town to buy her own things, she will take from us and then tell us we need to go to the store.
I don't think this woman will be welcome in our house much longer....
Don't let those people walk all over you! No one deserves that kind of mistreatment.