I am so glad I came here with this issue.  I have been so worried I'd lose my sweetheart (personality wise).  For those of you who have commented on my kicking her...please be reassured that I'd never hurt my hens.  If you have seen any of my other posts here, you'll know how much we love our girls.  It was more of a "put my foot under her and lift and throw a little".  It really did not hurt her one bit and I felt just terrible after doing it.  It was at that point that I came here for help.  The help has been well received.  I have begun to implement the hand on the back and gently pushing down.  I wasn't quite sure how long I should hold her, but after checking this morning, I can see that I not been doing it nearly long enough.  I understand now that I need to wait for her to submit.  I will continue to do this, and patiently wait for her to come around.  Treats will still be a big part of my chickens day (including Jasmine the naughty girl).  Today, I'll try properly holding her down until submission.  Hopefully it is partly hormonal as well since they are getting very close to laying.  Thank so much to the wonderful, knowledgeable BYC family who has helped me.