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It's okay. It's hard to get a good read on someone, especially on the internet and involving one incident. My husband is very practical, he knows we live in a residential area and we only have so much room. We both work full time, have 2 dogs and a child. I, on the other hand, also know these things but wanted chickens anyway. I did my research, it's not like I'm raising a bunch of cattle in our yard, and our family LOVES eggs (and we go through them like crazy). We have a nice large yard with a back area already perfectly sectioned off for the chickens. Why not? I'm very spontaneous, I know what I want and when I want it and he kind of knows that even if he says "let's wait" eventually I'll do what I want. They aren't harming anyone, they aren't disruptive, it's just that HE doesn't like having so many. He thought three was too many, then came two more. I apologized for picking them up without even telling him, but informed him that I am paying for them, taking care of them, and they bring me and our daughter much joy. I am keeping them. He was still a bit annoyed, but got over it. The shouting incident was in the heat of the moment and the garage door was closing but my daughter hears EVERYTHING and she picked that right up. I hate the word shut up as well, it's very disrespectful and I've taught my daughter (even with the outside influences of daycare kids, etc) not to say that.
Anyway, I don't worry about my husband. He's a very gentle person, always has been. I've spanked our daughter but he refuses to lay a hand on her so if anyone is the physical person, it would be me. He's already cooled down a bit and was even taking pictures of them last night when they escaped from their brooder. (I posted those on the main page as well.)
Anyway, I don't worry about my husband. He's a very gentle person, always has been. I've spanked our daughter but he refuses to lay a hand on her so if anyone is the physical person, it would be me. He's already cooled down a bit and was even taking pictures of them last night when they escaped from their brooder. (I posted those on the main page as well.)