We are very fussy about rehoming our males as well. I emphasize that ours are to go to pet homes only and not to contact me if they plan on eating them. I usually ask the person who takes them about their current ducks or poultry and how they plan to care for them ect. I think you can get a good sense from people when you talk with them a bit. I also try to rehome locally and most of the people usually tell me I can visit them at any time. I usually tell them they are my daughter's ducks and how upset she is to have to rehome them! A good sob story get's em' every time! Most people can't lie to a little girl when they pick up the duck! We always give our's away. The cost of a good home is priceless! Good luck!