What would you do in this situation?

[Randy]

Okay first you need to start casually dating him. Then start talking about how you need commitment and how soon you would like to get married and start a family. He should be gone in a flash. LOL

 

[FortWorthChicks]

This needs to be taken care of. I would be direct, not mean but just tell him

"Don't ever touch me again."

and walk away just as quick as he does. He should get the message.

 

[PineappleMama]

You touch me in a way I don't want, I'ma touch you in a way you don't want.

For me, touching in ANY way is a no... for you a shot to the nose, gut, or groin is a no... get the picture?

Really, I loathe guys that like to fondle you like you're a tomato in the produce section.
Give a squeeze, maybe a thump, to see if you're ripe? Really?

That earns a swift smack... I've been told I have a nice right jab... and I won't hesitate to use it if need be.
Some have learned that the hard way... some are smart enough to just listen when I say Back Off.

Depends on the person, but this one seems to stubborn/stupid to take a polite no... you're going to have to take it up a notch.
Agree with what others have said, loud, very obvious NOs are the way to go.
Talk to the teachers, so they will be aware... tell them you're okay now, but just in case ...

And, just because he says he's transferring... well if he doesn't get it through his head that you and he are a lost cause...
He may decide sticking around is more important... and that you do NOT want... so make sure it's clear there is NO chance.

Bah, I hate pushy people.

 

[TriciaHowe]

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[TriciaHowe]

Just throwing it out there just as a maybe, but this kid could possibly have Aspergers syndrome and is unable to "read" facial expressions and body language which is why he isn't getting the hint you're not interested. The blunt way may be the way to go in this case if he continues to pursue the issue.

 

[Boyd]

lol i was hoping no one noticed

 

[Slinkytoys]

Ohhhhh we notice, Boyd

Slinky

 

[fordmommy]

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Oh yes we ALL did!

 

[Boyd]

 

[saddina]

I actually thought Asperenger's as well. Have you considered that the guy is special ed (or should be?). Either way, direct and honest "Bob, I'm not interested in being your girlfriend." If he pokes you "Bob, I don't like to be touched". if after a day or so of that he persists, mention quietly to your professor, that you think bob may need some help from campus counselors as he's a bit off. Many times social disorders aren't clear untill it's time to make relationships, and then people who are unable to make them struggle and fail. Not saying it's your job to fix him, just be clear to him the first time and if he continues, ask a professor or counselor to help the guy out, as your message isn't getting thru.