Why did she have to say that...

[Fancie]

p.s. people don't like people that are better than themselves.... it's just they way it is.... Thats why christ was killed.... thats why jews where slaughtered... people are evil jeoluse things, and there is nothing that can be done to change them.

 

[Cetawin]

I am sorry I am coming in on this late...everything MissPrissy said is correct. As hard as it may seem...ignore it. Be happy with yourself and who you are. Being a beauty queen is not everything by any means and when it is all said and done...they will wrinkle and fade just like anyone else. What matters most is what is inside. While it may sound like a cliche' it is so true...beauty is only skin deep but ugly is to the bone!

 

[TheDuckCrew]

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aww thank you! i feel stuck up saying all of that....i also feel bad in my art class. i'll get mad and start over on a project because i didn't like it but everyone gets mad because it was 10x better than theirs but i know i can do better and i don't settle for "okay." its gotten to the point i have to hide my drawings sometimes....

 

[DarkWolf]

Being your own worst critic isn't always a bad thing.. Brings a higher level of pride in ones work... If even it takes longer to accomplish..

I wouldn't feel at all stuck up about that list BTW. It's not a bit self center, nor narcissistic and speaks volumes about your character, which it seems to me some others are seriously lacking.

And with that, I leave you with one of my favorite quotes to ponder.

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

 

[TheDuckCrew]

ohh and my sister should just ruin this so quickly! the guy I LIKE came over today (friends with both me, my sister and my brother) and he asked my sister to prom and she said yes. she's joking right? she must be joking? right? nope. the guy i like is going to prom with my sister. joy. the guy i liked before asked my sister to the semi formal. really? must this ALWAYS happen? ugh. whatever i guess, there's more guys. not in this town, but other places.

 

[Chickerdoodle13]

I'm sorry you are feeling so crappy! I've been in the very same position as you though...more times than I can remember.

I've been rejected more times than I care to remember by guys, I've always had friends that were prettier than me, and I've always struggled with my weight. As a type 1 diabetic, it is near impossible to drop. Its not always easy growing up, but it seems to get easier. I have bad days sometimes, where things just seem like they will never get better. Struggling with a disease like diabetes gets to me sometimes too, so when I get days like that I usually just hide away from everyone.

I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend, so don't feel bad! I probably will not have one for another few years either. Sometimes it makes me sad, but most of the time I don't care. Not having a boyfriend allows me to do whatever I want and I won't have any strings attached when I decide to move away from this area.

Sound slike you may need to cut some ties from your friends though. They don't sound like real friends! I've been in that position too, and it feels so good to just cut the ties. Amazingly, every time I've cut the tie with someone, someone new shows up and takes their place! There are so many people to meet out there. Of course, high school can be very difficult! Look forward to graduation, make the best of the time you have left there, and then ENJOY college! I love college. The people are so much more mature and there are just endless possibilities!

Good luck. Remember, there is always light at the end of EVERY tunnel!

 

[TheDuckCrew]

right now i more look forward to my sisters graduation that is quickly approaching. EVERY GUY I LIKE ALWAYS LIKES HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! really? its impossible. time for college, NOW. plus i want my own room again.

 

[Ellie_NY_chick]

I was like you in high school. Always living in my sister's shadow (she is 2 years older than me).

While all of this seems so important now, you won't even remember it in 5 years, I promise. Just be as nice as you can to people and ignore the "meanies". Life will come back and bite them in the butt.

My sister is all into Facebook now and finding all those people from high school and they're all a pack of big losers. I wouldn't trade places with any of them.

PS - her butt is twice as big as mine now!

All of this will seem so unimportant in a couple of years. Hang in there!

 

[CityGirlintheCountry]

Ummm, at your age, boys are stupid and mostly blind. Just say it over and over again until you are in your mid-20s, "Boys are stupid. Boys are stupid. Boys are stupid."

I know it is frustrating and it hurts. Sadly we cannot make people behave the way we want them to behave. But think about it, if Sparky is interested in someone as shallow and mean as your sister, do you REALLY want to be hanging out with him? He's a weinie. You can and will do better.

Look on the bright side. Your sister graduates this year and will be GONE. Whoohoo!! Her Mean Girl Friends will leave too. You get the place to yourself. YAY!!!!

You need to get involved in activities that don't involve your sister. Branch out! Explore worlds that interest you and not her. Make friends with people that are interested in the things you are interested in. Your sister sounds toxic. Stay away from her and go do things that make you happy.

Again I say, you can only be upset if you allow yourself to be upset. Happiness is your choice. You are beautiful and creative and interesting. Your posts show you to be intelligent and bright. You are smart enough to recognize that she is playing you. Don't let her. You are better than that. There are years left in life and years left to like this boy or that. Boys in high school do not matter. Concentrate on being friends with them and set your sights on developing as a person. I promise that when you are older, you will meet the right person. The odds are great that you won't meet him in high school.

for having to put up with so much stupidity. Life calms down. I promise. Just hang on and this too will end.

 

[TheDuckCrew]

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thank you for the advice. but yep, boys are stupid. me and my friend have a special saying..."boys are stupid, throw rocks at them!" ahaha! everyones advice from things they have already experienced is really helping me refocus and set my sights on the right things, like being the best person i can be.