I wish I could say that I love where I live, but:
1. the ground in the horse paddocks has been so compacted by constant use that the water doesn't run off into the pond anymore -- it can't get out of the paddocks.
2. the septic field takes up nearly 1/3 of the property, limiting what I can do with a very large segment of my land -- no horses, no fences, no anything that will compact the soil and/or punch holes into the septic system.
3. with only 5 acres and neighbors all around my views of the countryside are blocked, and I'm limited on how many chickens I might place in the area over the septic field.
4. although I'm only minutes away from 2 freeways, and 6 miles from a growing city, it still takes forever to get anywhere (not by So Cal standards, but by mine) -- it's 30 minutes to drop my daughter off at Mom's Day Out, 30 minutes to get back, leaving very little time to actually accomplish anything in my "free" time before having to go get her.
5. I'm from out West, humidity is something I only had to deal with in Hawaii (no problems with it there, mind you) -- at least until golf took over the desert regions and introduced humidity to places that never had it before (there were times when Reno felt like Houston...in the fall or winter). I HATE the heat & humidity combo, though in TN's defense, the summers here ain't as bad as Houston.
6. my daughter needs family around her. My friends who said they would fill in the gap haven't been able to do it. My family is all out West and rarely make the effort to visit. For her sake, I need to move us closer to where they are....but here we have an awesome school system that can help with her speech and language needs........
I will say that Middle TN is a great place to live if you aren't me. I've been here 11 years, basically in the same city, which says a lot -- I'd never spent more than 5 years in one place before. I love the trees, the fall colors, the creeks and rivers, all the things that remind me of growing up in a small town in No Cal. The people here are friendly, the schools are excellent, there is a huge variety of things to do -- if you need to live near a big city I highly recommend Williamson County.